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Old 10-26-2018, 12:22 PM
 
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Details. My ex and I broke up at good terms, no one cheated or lied, the timing just wasn’t right. We were only together for short period of time but we instantly felt comfortable with each other from the start. We were able to talk about anything and everything and we just understand each other in a way no one else can. We stayed in touch after the breakup and I would still go to him for advice or when I just need someone to talk to.
The other day he had an emergency so I met up with him in person and we talked and talked until he was feeling better. The next day we met up again and we talked about us. He told me he still thinks about me and everything reminds him of me. Then we talked about the future and he included me in it. He also told me he never wants my see me cry or hurt me again cause it killed him to see me like that. He asked me to hug him and I did. We stayed like that for a while and he still kisses the top of my head. Then we kinda cuddled (we were out in public and I was sitting on his lap) and he was just holding me and giving me light kisses on my arm, hand, collarbone, and cheek. Don’t say that he was only trying to sleep with me cause he never once initiated that, we were just comforting each other.
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Old 10-26-2018, 12:44 PM
 
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Maybe, but if he had an emergency, he was likely very vulnerable and looking for comfort, and he might have been confusing his feelings or acting without thinking. I would not recommend rekindling a relationship until things have settled down and he can make good decisions.
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Old 10-26-2018, 12:51 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Well, keep doing what you're doing and don't force anything. Looks like you could get close again.
How long were you dating?
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Old 10-26-2018, 03:16 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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No idea. Maybe yes maybe no.
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Old 10-26-2018, 05:17 PM
 
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Do you want to date him again?

That is the entire conundrum. If so, then ask him out. If you think "timing is still not right," (using your style of verbage above) then don't.

It's not all that complicated. I mean, he may not be interested. He might be. But, don't just sit at home and wonder. Take life by the horns and find out. Ask him!

Nothing ever works out if you do not try.
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Old 10-26-2018, 05:26 PM
 
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Who suggested breaking up? If he did, he should be to be the one who brings up getting back together. And vice versa
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Old 10-26-2018, 07:15 PM
 
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What was the timing issue that broke up the relationship?
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Old 10-26-2018, 09:28 PM
 
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What was the timing issue that broke up the relationship?
He broke up with me cause he couldn’t put his 100% into the relationship due to work and school. And our schedules just didn’t work out.

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Old 10-26-2018, 09:50 PM
 
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What was the timing issue that broke up the relationship?[/QUOTE

He broke up with me cause he couldn’t put his 100% into the relationship due to work and school. And our schedules just didn’t work out.
Are things any different now?
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Old 10-26-2018, 09:59 PM
 
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Are things any different now?
No they are not. And it won’t be for a while. But I am willing to wait for him. Is that stupid?
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