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Omg self made. Do you think I would fall in a relationship if I am fully content with my husband? And also I spoke with him ever since the beginning. He is kind of ignoring things happening with me for his peace of mind. And I am struggling with my feelings. We both are missing the sec part in married life. I have no idea how he satisfies himself. I myself killed that urge since my first cheating experience. Now it is back . After 11 years. We had sex only for having our son. With an ovulation kit and ky jelly. Even he struggled in that moment to have sex with me. This is my second workplace I meet a guy who hit me up n I could not stop myself. Do you think I will feel for a guy like this if I was content with my husband. I am not a person like that. I believe in one man one life n virginity. I am so broken with my life experiences and you are mean to me .
Gus:- no other issues other than lack of intimacy. We barely communicate too. My parents are so unhappy of the way they are treated by my husband when they come here. Also after having me son my husband changed in his expressions. But even then I feel he is more intimate to son than me lately. He miss his son sleeping with him When my parents came here. He was unhappy that our son is sleeping with them. In last 10 years we had sex in 2008 for 3 times and 2011 for two times. 2013 feb March n April during ovulation time we tested with the kit- and I conceived. Then we had sex in 2018 April after I pushed him to work on it since this guy was absorbing me n I was worried . My husband knew it ever since this relationship beginning. He is calm n quite with it.
OP, there is a LOT to deal with here, and there are no easy answers for you. You are in an extremely complicated situation.
I mean, there is the difficulty of the constraints and expectations of Indian culture, but you've pretty much shot all that to hell. You cannot claim to honor those traditions, so you might as well take the western approach here.
I do think you and your husband should try VERY hard to maintain your marriage and family. It's remarkable that he knows about your affairs and can take a somewhat objective approach with you.
I do think you two should seek marital therapy. You, at least, should seek personal therapy. The reason you keep lusting after men in your workplace is because you are human and your brain is trying to maintain some semblance of normal human operations in your very spartan relationship.
Please consider getting professional help. You CAN train yourself to ignore the sexual urges you're having, or at least spare your co-workers from them, but you have to really try.
It's not good to raise a child in an setting full of tension. Try your hardest to get your husband to go to marital counseling with you. If he won't please seek therapy yourself.
Sorry. But see I am not hunting for anybody. I jus unfortunately fell for this guy. He had five girls before in all means. And now with me. But he is nice that he is ignoring me since I am married. I take your opinion very seriously and will work on it.
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