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Thanks for the response. But I would never try to pick up women in Bars or clubs.
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Originally Posted by NOEM1226
I know plenty of women with looks, nice a**es, and brains.
You may have to work a little harder to find them-but there out there!
If you are looking only in the club/bar scene you may be narrowing your own field. It's not that intelligent people don't go to these places but you may have better luck at places like the library, civic events, volunteer projects, political rallies, church, or even at the places you go to pursue your hobbies.I would also advise steering clear of those who KNOW how hot they are, It has been my experience that if they are stuck on their own looks they rarely take the time to cultivate other personality traits or talents. They know some guy who is only out for the hottie will overlook this fact.
And I am so grateful that there are guys like you who realize that when that fine a** heads south or spreads (as most do) or really late in the game when your "junk" stops working- That things such as character of ability to carry a conversation take on a whole new importance.
Most men don't think about this until it's too late and they are in a miserable marriage to a trophy wife. Thank You.
Ron, if that's all you're finding, then trust me, that's all you're looking for. You only attract that which you're looking for. Focus on the type of woman that you want, and you'll attract it. If you believe all women are like the ones you described, then that's all that you're going to find.
I've got to say, I'm surprised to hear you say that. As a woman who was born and raised in Chicago who now lives in LA, I missed Chicago men tremendously! I never had any trouble meeting men of substance while in Chicago but it's been an entirely new ballgame here in LA. When I first moved here 10 years ago, I went to a club with a friend of mine and the first guy who walked up to me told me what he drove before he told me his name. Nice.
I would say that you are clearly not choosing your dates wisely. There's been some really good advice on this thread and it all boils down to what is more important to you? I only mean that if you're picking up someone who has her T and A's hanging all out then she is clearly looking for someone to appreciate her for her physical attributes. Which is her choice but she's letting you know upfront what she has to offer. However, if you are dating women based solely on whether or not they can hold a conversation with you, then you will find that it opens more doors. There are also plenty of women in this category who will have the T and A's that you're looking for (that's an assumption I know and I apologize if it's incorrect) but they are not going to have it out on display for the masses. In my opinion women who have self confidence and self love realize that it's not necessary to let it all hang out to get a man because what we're looking for wouldn't be interested in that anyway. It'll be on display for you only. So if I were you, I'd think about the last few women that I dated and think about what drew you to them and why it didn't work? Tweak your game some and include different types of women. If you're only dating one type of person you can't really be too surprised if you keep getting the same results.
"Tighten your game" You sound like a little kid!!!!!! It's not a game to attracting women. I have never had to use "game" to attract women. The last time I heard a guy use the word "game" as it relates to women I was in highschool and that was over 15 years ago. I never here any of my guy friends use the word "game"...........That's to funny!!!
LOL, that's funny. I'm old school, so we still use that I guess. I don't know what it's called now.
In Chicago it seems the only thing many not all of these women have to offer is good looks and tight jeans with a nice ass. Boy that gets old when you're trying to find a girlfriend or mate. All style no substance!
Guys like you are too demanding. After all, that's all her father demanded. What is she to do?
In Chicago it seems the only thing many not all of these women have to offer is good looks and tight jeans with a nice ass. Boy that gets old when you're trying to find a girlfriend or mate. All style no substance!
In Chicago it seems the only thing many not all of these women have to offer is good looks and tight jeans with a nice ass. Boy that gets old when you're trying to find a girlfriend or mate. All style no substance!
Keep looking. You might find one just like Oprah. All substance there!
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Thank You.
I think everyone might just be over analyzing this post....it's not that serious lol....ChicagoRon just had a general question/comment that's all...
