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Getting your opinions on this issue. I have Asperger's syndrome which is why I'm concerned regarding my potential to be in a relationship, considering my current age range where it starts to be a problem to many.
From a fellow Aspergerian person, I have a few questions for you.
Do you go around telling everyone that you're a 25 year old virgin? And by everyone, I mean particularly potential dating prospects? Because you don't have to tell them, it's none of their business. You do not have to disclose this to anybody, especially not a potential love interest. Unless you emphasize that you're a virgin by choice or because of personal values, this is something that may turn people off. They may think ''Well, if no one else wants to sleep with this guy and he's 25, why would I want to?''. If you really want, there's very likely things you can read up on that will tell you what to do in the event you do have sex, so you don't look like you've never done it before. I'm sure there's even non-pornographic pictorials and everything.
One other question. Do you go around also telling people you have Asperger's? Do you let this define you? Like ''Hey, I'm Joe and I have Asperger's! And it sucks!''. Because that's pretty negative and when I see your username on here, I get the idea that you may be putting up a flag about your condition to most people and that you also may have an insecurity about it, that you start to express around people. That's not a good thing to do, especially around dating prospects.
Do not tell women you are a Virgin. Trust me on this.
Honestly, there’s really no reason to. It most likely shouldn’t even come up unless he brings it up. At age 25, most people are gonna assume he’s not a virgin anyway, so it’s not like they’re gonna be asking him if he’s a virgin.
If you so admire Ted Cruz and Tim Tebow, dislike "left wing" women who "are the kind of girls" you think would look down on you for your lack of experience (wha??) and feel that evangelical Christians of Collin County are "your people" – I don't get the preoccupation with your virginity – Asperger's or not.
Not to say that all evangelical Christians are virgins until marriage either, but it seems to me given your positions, waiting for that "good," evangelical Christian, conservative, right wing woman no matter how long it takes goes with the territory.
Get out there and date. Your virginity will resolve itself eventually.
If you so admire Ted Cruz and Tim Tebow, dislike "left wing" women who "are the kind of girls" you think would look down on you for your lack of experience (wha??) and feel that evangelical Christians of Collin County are "your people" – I don't get the preoccupation with your virginity – Asperger's or not.
Not to say that all evangelical Christians are virgins until marriage either, but it seems to me given your positions, waiting for that "good," evangelical Christian, conservative, right wing woman no matter how long it takes goes with the territory.
Get out there and date. Your virginity will resolve itself eventually.
My apology for leaving this tread in limbo I forgot it after being swamped with work a couple days.
I admit I’m putting too much of an emphasis on dating the types of women that I’ve fit into a category. The reasoning behind this is that I don’t want to get hurt by someone who turns me down for being a virgin. Like, I’ve read dozens of Yahoo Answers stories of guys who went into apartments with their dates, and the minute they said “I’m shy about this, I’m a virgin”, the girl left them.
I’m not a socially skilled person, so on average, I get a date maybe once in 6 months. I don’t want to work 6 months for someone who will dump me for being a virgin when I could find a girl who couldn’t care less.
As far as the political campaigning I did this Fall, most of it was blockwalking with one or two guys so I didn’t get to meet many women that were part of the effort. Like I said, I’m not prioritizing dating during this time, it’s gonna get better when I move out and become more financially stable.
For those of you who question my Christian ethics, here’s a video of how women will respond towards virgin men if the Left has its way. At least 60% of young women in the video say they will never consider it, compared to 42% of American women (Match.com poll, Google it) which is kinda low since a lot of Match.com users are in their 30s to 50s. Thank God Texas is not London.
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