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Old 12-22-2018, 05:36 PM
 
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I had a crush on a friend but now it’s on and off, mostly off.

She told me she was in love with this guy for three years that she is now having something with. However she was in a relationship with another guy and said that another guy was her soulmate simply bc of a Facebook post. Is it safe to say to just see her as a friend?

I don’t know if I could be in a long term relationship with someone who jumps around like this.
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Old 12-22-2018, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I had a crush on a friend but now it’s on and off, mostly off.

She told me she was in love with this guy for three years that she is now having something with. However she was in a relationship with another guy and said that another guy was her soulmate simply bc of a Facebook post. Is it safe to say to just see her as a friend?

I don’t know if I could be in a long term relationship with someone who jumps around like this.
Is it safe for who to say that?

It is possible to have a crush on someone without thinking that it's going to turn into something. I think it's safe to say that nothing is going to develop between you and her, and you don't appear to respect her decisions much, so you have to ask yourself why you continue to hang around her.
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Old 12-22-2018, 05:48 PM
 
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Is it safe for who to say that?

It is possible to have a crush on someone without thinking that it's going to turn into something. I think it's safe to say that nothing is going to develop between you and her, and you don't appear to respect her decisions much, so you have to ask yourself why you continue to hang around her.
Bc she is in love with more than one person at the same time. How can I trust her?
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Bc she is in love with more than one person at the same time. How can I trust her?
How can you trust her? As a GF?? That’s not really relevant, is it? YOU aren’t about to be with her, so it doesn’t matter.

You need to ask why you continue to hang around her. If you’re orbiting, hoping she’ll turn your way, you need to stop.

PS She’s not really in LOVE with them.
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:15 PM
 
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How can you trust her? As a GF?? That’s not really relevant, is it? YOU aren’t about to be with her, so it doesn’t matter.

You need to ask why you continue to hang around her. If you’re orbiting, hoping she’ll turn your way, you need to stop.

PS She’s not really in LOVE with them.
Even the guy she’s been in love with three years?
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:19 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Even the guy she’s been in love with three years?
Who knows if she is in LOVE or if she needs affirmation and validation?

What is your actual question?
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:23 PM
 
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What is this?

You're kidding right?

She's nowhere near the vicinity of being a friend and even further away from being your gf.....

Use common sense. Please.
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:31 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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This is some delusional stuff, Lol ��
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:49 PM
 
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What is this?

You're kidding right?

She's nowhere near the vicinity of being a friend and even further away from being your gf.....

Use common sense. Please.
Why?
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:51 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth, USA
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The thread is so obvious that you wouldn't have asked if your gut didnt tell you that you cant.

No you cant trust a ltr with her.
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