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Old 12-23-2018, 12:52 PM
 
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You're a lucky man. She's nothing. Immature at best and a brat at least. At your age you shouldn't be letting this stuff bother you either. You have bigger things to worry about and in your future you'll meet better people than this girl is.
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Old 12-23-2018, 12:53 PM
 
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So she was never into me? Damn... How come she wanted to be friends 2 weeks after dumping me? which I rejected and then I posted a girl on my instagram story which she watched and then unfollowed me, she would still watch my stories from now and again but now obviously she has a boyfriend so...

I mean you sure she was never into me? She used to be obsessed with me, like she would even make me go college to show me off to her friends and posting me on her social media and stuff, she seemed really into me so I dont know man.
You said you dated for two months. That's barely a "relationship."

She is an immature jerk. We don't need to parse it down any further than that.

Now, you need to continue to work on maturity yourself. This one, while an irritant, is a blip on the radar.

Consider yourself lucky that you dodged a bullet and stop giving this so much room in your head.
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Old 12-23-2018, 01:25 PM
 
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You're a lucky man. She's nothing. Immature at best and a brat at least. At your age you shouldn't be letting this stuff bother you either. You have bigger things to worry about and in your future you'll meet better people than this girl is.
It doesnt even bother at all, in fact I find it funny because they're both failures while I'm getting my life sorted, Its only the curiosity of it that bothers me, her action doesnt actually trigger a thing in me.
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Old 12-23-2018, 01:33 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I mean you sure she was never into me? She used to be obsessed with me, like she would even make me go college to show me off to her friends and posting me on her social media and stuff, she seemed really into me so I dont know man.
That's not about you. It's about her. She was using you to have something to show off and post about, that's all. It's not love.

She just sounds like an immature, self-absorbed teenager. She'll always be miserable as long as she keeps acting this way toward others.

Try to minimize your interactions as much as possible. If it doesn't bother you anyway, then you're good.
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Old 12-23-2018, 01:36 PM
 
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That's not about you. It's about her. She was using you to have something to show off and post about, that's all. It's not love.

She just sounds like an immature, self-absorbed teenager. She'll always be miserable as long as she keeps acting this way toward others.

Try to minimize your interactions as much as possible. If it doesn't bother you anyway, then you're good.
Yeah you're right I'll keep that in mind thank you
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Old 12-23-2018, 04:03 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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hide? If anything it makes me hate her worse... Why can't she just simply ignore me like I am? Like mature people.
Hiding it from her friends. Of course you know she’s terrible.
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Old 12-23-2018, 04:32 PM
 
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Hiding it from her friends. Of course you know she’s terrible.
It's quite sad to say the least, especially knowing that I didn't do anything at all even tho she did all the damage lol

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