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For me sexuality compatibility is most important, the other things can be worked on, but why continue in a relationship with someone who is not good in bed, doesn't do what you like sexually, or doesn't enjoy sex?? That is silly.
Fine if it works for you but I'd say you are in the minority and that minority extends to women who'd be willing to vette you sexually without caring about any other aspect of you. So you're likely reducing your chances overall though you might find a lot of people to just have sex with - is that your long term goal?
You referring to it as "shady" is what I am talking about. Why do people think that way? It's a misguided mindset that makes you miss out on lots of wonderful opportunities.
I'll take it a step further.
All single women under 35 should spread thier legs before we go on a first date.
Why waste time getting to know each other if we're not sexually compatible right?
You already answered your question: This forum, Wanting monogamy (not necessarily jealousy), and STDs.
I’ve read more comments and debate about STDs in my couple of years here, than I have in 10 years of real life. I assumed most people protected themself and didn’t get on a podium about it.
If you post about the importance of finding sexual compatibility, you’ll get murmurs that you’re “slu!!y” or “promiscuous” if you’re a woman, and who has the energy or need to debate/explain that.
Someone else talk to me please besides this guy. He doesn't get what I am talking about and never will because he thinks that everyone still waits until marriage to kiss for the first time.
EXACTLY! People will try to shame people into not having sex by saying such stupid things. It barely registers on people's radars. But that doesn't fit the no sex agenda.
You referring to it as "shady" is what I am talking about. Why do people think that way? It's a misguided mindset that makes you miss out on lots of wonderful opportunities.
It is not misguided. Dating and relationships are very personal. There are any number of "reasons" though none are needed.
There are a lot of wonderful experiential opportunities in the world. I wind up missing a lot of them. I'm ok with that.
For me sexuality compatibility is most important, the other things can be worked on, but why continue in a relationship with someone who is not good in bed, doesn't do what you like sexually, or doesn't enjoy sex?? That is silly.
YOu just explained the whole thing. You knew the answer all along. Yay!
Sorry I dont send pictures like that. She would have to inspect it "face to face"
Besides, most women dont even know how to measure inches. Guys would just photoshop lol
She of course gets the right to verify in person whatever pics she received earlier.
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