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Don't have enough info to actually know if you have been used or not but it is clear that this "friend" does not have anytime for you. Find a new friend.
I also wonder why OP feels that he might be used. Used for what?
He met a guy and they talked. Then the friend figured out that talking every day is just too much for him. So, he gradually stopped that, "started to distance himself and blocked him", "told him that he doesn't have to talk to him every single day...". It seems obvious that OP might be a needy, clingy, demanding, attention seeking person who wants to talk every day, maybe whining and complaining. His friend doesn't want the negativities, so he blocked him.
Probably most of us would do the same.
What's so hard to understand, OP?
Just stop wondering and get over it.
Yes, more info needed. OP, he told you he was cutting the negativity out of his life, when you asked him why he blocked you. Are you negative? Have you complained about things in your life to him, in the past? Are you critical of others?
In any case, it does appear, by your description of his activities, that he's moved on with other friendships.
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