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While I think that your now ex bf is a immature selfish jerk that needed to be dumped a long time ago,
I believe that you are responsible for your own low self esteem issues and need to stop looking for sexual validation as a way to feel good about yourself.
Eventually looks fade and you are left with you. You should be happy with you regardless. My 2 cents...
Well I ended it had no choice cant handle it anymore plus I have rent due in few days an he knows I won't have the money an he let me know he isn't helping us an doesn't care since he can go to his mom's but we can't so I'm done
The younger child is biologically his, right? What kind of a dude refuses to help his own kid?
While the gist of this posters concerns are both having her physical and emotional needs not met, I suspect that this gent may well have some reasons to be less intimate. He does owe the relationship a level of direct honesty and effort to rekindle .
OP- As someone who experienced this thwarted behavior ...I commend you for hanging in there. I can say without a doubt that UPPING your game isn't the answer. This is really NOT about you when it comes to his rejections....its his problem to solve. Directly state it to him ....and then go on about your day.
Regarding the bold - So what? Maybe you're right, but despite what he might "owe" the relationship it's not like she can put a lien against it and make him pay. It seems pretty clear that the dude is just done with her.
We have a lot in common we like all the same things movies recreational activities foods etc an has not bored I gave him the option to just go be with someone else he declined saying that's not what he wants he can care less about other women but said he does love and want me that he's unhappy with himself we've been talking more since I started this thread u guys have helped me with how to start conversations instead of just arguing
He doesn't want to be done it's me finally trying to put my foot down an yes my son is his idk it gets ugly when we fight its like we purposefully try to hurt each other
And u know what callipoopy nothing u said is true and actually I think me making him leave for those few days helped cuz he seen I was serious an were talking more an trying to figure it out he said he doesn't want anyone so that's positive an said he'd try to come on to me more if we aren't fighting
Also if u look at my pics I have a picture of engagement ring he proposed to me with we aren't married cuz I don't want to be since my dad died I have no interest in getting married
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