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Silly, silly Ruth4truth, you can't cheat with your boyfriend right in front of you. He's, after all (clears throat), the greatest thing that ever happened to her, or the love of her life.
Lol, classic. This post should have a gold border around it.
I should have written, "Do you think one can cheat on someone they love?".
My response was open to either interpretation of your wording : )
All I can say for me personally I would like to think I would never hurt someone I love like that. I was aware of my dad cheating on my mother at a young age (they didn't know I knew) and I know the anguish it caused her. From where I sit now I can't imagine putting someone I loved through that. I'd like to think if I'm to the point that I'm wanting a new partner that I would break things off with my current partner, but again, for me that's just theoretical.
If I was ever in a position to cheat, a lifetime of unwanted singleness has at least left me with a few gifts in this arena. First, it's unlikely that a woman would want to engage with me on that level...I have talent for neither seduction nor attraction. Second, if she did, I would be unlikely to properly read the signals and respond, unless they were overt. Third, I've developed very strong controls on my sexuality from decades of mental denial..."Nope, don't even think of her in that way, she certainly isn't thinking of you like that."
This is probably an exception, but my brother's girlfriend cheated on him and he broke up with her. They were done. He moves to a different part of Europe to get away from her and start over. She showed up at the same university.
He moved back to the united states and went back to school for his masters. She showed up working or studying in a nearby town in Canada. He refused to even talk to her, but she kept dropping by.
He moved 1000 miles away, and she turned up working in a nearby town. Same story.
He went to Africa and she found a position in Africa not far away.
When he came back from Africa, they were together again. Now they are married.
I can happen, but she had to really work at showing she was sorry and committed.
That is the exception. Frankly if a girlfriend had kissed one of her friend while out clubbing, she could have followed me to the north Pole and I doubt I would even want to speak to her again. Everyone is different though. Some people thing messing around with others is perfectly fine, fun even. If he takes you back, just don't expect him to remain loyal only to you at all times.
Yo, if smooching another guy is ok then what is wrong -- sleeping w/ them only? In my day, kisses lead to far more & are NOT innocuous.
Just askin...
In your day? In any day! I'd still like to know about this non-date going-out to a club with a guy friend, that the OP was doing. Is this a more or less regular thing with her and her bf, where they each occasionally go out with a friend of the opposite sex, while the other is at home or occupied elsewhere? Or was there a back story to it, that might be relevant? Had they just had an argument? More info needed.
In your day? In any day! I'd still like to know about this non-date going-out to a club with a guy friend, that the OP was doing. Is this a more or less regular thing with her and her bf, where they each occasionally go out with a friend of the opposite sex, while the other is at home or occupied elsewhere? Or was there a back story to it, that might be relevant? Had they just had an argument? More info needed.
This is probably an exception, but my brother's girlfriend cheated on him and he broke up with her. They were done. He moves to a different part of Europe to get away from her and start over. She showed up at the same university.
He moved back to the united states and went back to school for his masters. She showed up working or studying in a nearby town in Canada. He refused to even talk to her, but she kept dropping by.
He moved 1000 miles away, and she turned up working in a nearby town. Same story.
He went to Africa and she found a position in Africa not far away.
When he came back from Africa, they were together again. Now they are married.
I can happen, but she had to really work at showing she was sorry and committed.
That is the exception. Frankly if a girlfriend had kissed one of her friend while out clubbing, she could have followed me to the north Pole and I doubt I would even want to speak to her again. Everyone is different though. Some people thing messing around with others is perfectly fine, fun even. If he takes you back, just don't expect him to remain loyal only to you at all times.
He's been around for years on a couple of the California forums, and the Seattle forum.
Ruthie--
U mean leftist agenda state forums. LOL
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