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Old 02-18-2019, 06:55 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Why do you believe that?

It may be called cheating.
But do you think you can't cheat on someone you love?
whats false about it?
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Old 02-18-2019, 07:03 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Obviously, that people can cheat on and hurt people that they love
So does deliberately doing things that someone knows will hurt their spouse mean they love them?
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Old 02-18-2019, 07:05 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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This is what happens when you go out clubbing WITHOUT your boyfriend. Why were you not even with him on your night out is what I'm wondering.
Pffft. I've gone out clubbing and such numerous times without my husband, and never kissed a guy.
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Old 02-18-2019, 07:06 PM
 
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Pffft. I've gone out clubbing and such numerous times without my husband, and never kissed a guy.
Except me...oops...LOL
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Old 02-19-2019, 10:05 PM
 
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So a few weeks ago I kissed one of my guy friends while out clubbing and my boyfriend found out about it today and came over and told me we were finished. I know I fully deserve this but he was the love of my life and I’m not sure what to do anymore. I want to earn his trust back more than anything and I don’t know how to do that. He is my best friend and the most important person in my life and I hurt him, but I can’t bear to not have him in my life anymore. Does anyone have any advice, it would be much appreciated

If he was your most important person in life you wouldn't do this. He deserves better, leave him alone.
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Old 02-20-2019, 10:08 AM
 
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If he was your most important person in life you wouldn't do this. He deserves better, leave him alone.
Meh...I'm sure alcohol was involved and that has been known to alter judgment and inhibitions. Not an excuse but just being realistic. OP might really regret it after sobering up and realizing it was wrong....people do mess up when their judgement is clouded. A big concern though would be it happening again when she got in that state.

It would also depend on how "involved" the kiss was....was it a passionate, long french kiss or just a quick kiss on the lips?
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Old 02-20-2019, 10:12 AM
 
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For future relationships, don't club with guys if you can't resist kissing them while in relationship with another one.
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Old 02-20-2019, 10:18 AM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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For future relationships, don't club with guys if you can't resist kissing them while in relationship with another one.
Or maybe don't form exclusive relationships if going clubbing leads to kissing a person not your partner.
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Old 02-20-2019, 10:19 AM
 
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Or maybe don't form exclusive relationships if going clubbing leads to kissing a person not your partner.
Either/or.
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