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I have a friend and I recently realized being around her always had me bad luck.
This girl is a friend of mine for 9 years now. 8 years back i was in a relationship with someone and she never liked me to be with him( later realized that she liked him too) almost for 4 years I never had a smooth path in my relation because of her. Later I was abroad for my future studies and lost contact with her (may be we used to talk once in 3 months).Later, I got a job which I love, my relationship is stronger and everything was great. Until one day I got a text from her saying she lost the job. I tried to be nice and refered her in my office. She got the job and started staying with me and my boyfriend. A week after she came, my employment authorization was declined (the reason for denial is not a valid one) and thus I lost my job. Due to some issue my boyfriend almost lost his job (Fortunately, he is good now ) and everything goes wrong from the day she started living with us. Anything we planned would never be successful. I donot want to make her the reason, but when I look at my life with and with out her the past 9 years, I clearly could figure that I am at most happy without her involved in my life. Should I be careful around her? I am so confused!!!!!!!!!
Since I am away from my office now, she is trying to take my place in the office and never wanted me in there back!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel like betrayal...
Will being around some people is not so good for you?
Not sure this is the right sub-forum since the subject matter is a non-romantic relationship. But it sounds like somebody who I would not want to have a close friendship with.
Thank you everyone. We told her politely to move out. She tried to convince and stay with us, but we were strong with our decision. It is hard to break a 9 year friendship, but I am trying to keep her away from our lives as much as I can! I really hope things get settled in and are back to normal.
I am much concerned with everything because my dog started behaving weird when she in the house.
I did ask her about the office stuff ( She do not know that I already knew) and she just lied very easily. I am really not interested in having any discussion with her, as I know already she will create a new story! I just want to be in peace as I have my own problems to deal with!! So yday I told her to find a new place.
I am not a person who believes in such stuff. Everytime something happens I just thought it was meant to happen. But after thinking on every issue and couple of people telling me the same I had to believe in it! Afterall, all I want now is a peaceful house with my Boyfriend and my dog being happy again!
I am not a person who believes in such stuff. Everytime something happens I just thought it was meant to happen. But after thinking on every issue and couple of people telling me the same I had to believe in it! Afterall, all I want now is a peaceful house with my Boyfriend and my dog being happy again!
That’s freaky.
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