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Old 03-28-2009, 02:52 AM
 
Location: Connecticut
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Your husband is being a little insensitive regarding how you feel about him looking at pictures of other women on the internet. You have been honest and have voiced your feelings on how terrible this makes you feel. Please, don't ever think that he is doing this specifically because you are a smaller woman. I too am short but very round....sort of rubenesque..not obese beyond belief but I could lose a few pounds. I would LOVE to be smaller like you. We don't always get the body that we envision every man loves but we have to love the body we are in. He is making excuses as to why he is looking that he thinks are going to ease your mind...why doesn't he just tell the truth and say he likes to look? All men look...it is the nature of the beast.


It doesn't sound to me like you would have a very hard time persuading him to stop looking at those half nude pics. Use your feminine wiles...walk over, shut off his computer when he is looking and offer to show him something much better than those photos.. In the meantime, know that you have done the right thing and don't make a huge issue out of it unless it gets beyond the partially nude women...then you have a problem.
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Old 03-28-2009, 10:45 AM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Put the mirror down for a minute.

I can't. I just love contemplating the magnitude of me.
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Old 03-28-2009, 08:47 PM
 
Location: south Florida
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Yes
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Old 04-09-2009, 01:35 PM
 
Location: TX
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Just go by the policy of "Look but don't touch."
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Old 04-09-2009, 02:12 PM
 
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Off topic...sort of..but what about SO being in chat rooms? Having online friends? There are chat rooms where you can view people on webcams...and boy can you....people getting naked...showing this and that....
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Old 04-09-2009, 09:20 PM
 
Location: mid wyoming
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NO, looky but no touchy.
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Old 04-09-2009, 09:45 PM
 
Location: Houston Texas
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My husband looks at porn online and pictures of woman. Especially Milfs which is hilarous to me since he is 24 lol
It doesnt bother me at all.
Its what he likes to do. Its what most men like to look at. No big deal.
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Old 04-09-2009, 09:51 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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My husband looks at porn online and pictures of woman. Especially Milfs which is hilarous to me since he is 24 lol
It doesnt bother me at all.
Its what he likes to do. Its what most men like to look at. No big deal.
The range of opinions on this subject is interesting. You have this post then you have some females posting that porn is the equivelent to the "Original Sin."

Odd.
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Old 04-10-2009, 09:33 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Off topic...sort of..but what about SO being in chat rooms? Having online friends? There are chat rooms where you can view people on webcams...and boy can you....people getting naked...showing this and that....
Meh.....Same thing,IMO. Why oh why isn`t your GF/wife enough to view?
I mean, why do men feel the extra need to go further, and view other women....even if online?
Is it because your women isn`t doing it for you, or.....what?

Hmmm...Since I`m on a rant here, lol.....you guys should take into consideration, or at least try, really hard, not to oogle, other girls/women in front of your woman. Very unrespectful, and rude! lol....

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Old 04-10-2009, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
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cheating? hardly. I think that word (Cheating) is too broadly used by people who don't like something their sig. other are doing.

disrespectful? absolutely.
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