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Hey thank you everyone, I think my mind is really made up and I'm going to leave him today when I see him. We got in a fight yesterday again and that was the last straw. We were suppose to do something (yet again only at his house because he won't leave it to go elsewhere with me). I started to prepare myself but 10 minutes he called back to cancelled said he'd go to out with some friends instead. I got so angry when he said I couldn't come along the reason "I just don't like going out with you, you don't dance as much as others do" I was fuming. I told him yes I'm a bit shy to dance when there's almost no one on the dance floor but that never stopped any one else but you to invite me. I even told him to put my stuff together at his place and that tomorrow I'd come and pit them up, but he laughed not believing me. He said "ha ha ha, I'll see you tomorrow have a good night" then hung up. I can't believe that guy what a jerk.
Any way I am through with him.
By the way a lot of people have been asking if anything happened to him in his life. Well his parents got divorced, he took it really badly, they sold the house and he was living hell his parents were screaming at each other in from of him and even me. He got really upset and started a depression. He saw a psychiatrice who gaved him medication. I came to see him as often as I could to give him support, got him thoughful gifts, cheered him up. He got better (in my eyes) after a few weeks (2 months maybe) he smiled more and wasn't so down. I was happy. But that's when it all started and he changed
Good work Lil's. Always good to get a total load off your back.
Hey, you wouldn't happen to live in Washington state by any chance? I'm looking for a good woman to have fun with, I'm not a sexaholic but I do like to fool around.
Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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Hey thank you everyone, I think my mind is really made up and I'm going to leave him today when I see him. We got in a fight yesterday again and that was the last straw. We were suppose to do something (yet again only at his house because he won't leave it to go elsewhere with me). I started to prepare myself but 10 minutes he called back to cancelled said he'd go to out with some friends instead. I got so angry when he said I couldn't come along the reason "I just don't like going out with you, you don't dance as much as others do" I was fuming. I told him yes I'm a bit shy to dance when there's almost no one on the dance floor but that never stopped any one else but you to invite me. I even told him to put my stuff together at his place and that tomorrow I'd come and pit them up, but he laughed not believing me. He said "ha ha ha, I'll see you tomorrow have a good night" then hung up. I can't believe that guy what a jerk.
Any way I am through with him.
By the way a lot of people have been asking if anything happened to him in his life. Well his parents got divorced, he took it really badly, they sold the house and he was living hell his parents were screaming at each other in from of him and even me. He got really upset and started a depression. He saw a psychiatrice who gaved him medication. I came to see him as often as I could to give him support, got him thoughful gifts, cheered him up. He got better (in my eyes) after a few weeks (2 months maybe) he smiled more and wasn't so down. I was happy. But that's when it all started and he changed
Hate to say it....but watch out. I think he's got mental issues. Like, he might not take no for an answer. Like, he might think he owns you.
That paragraph scared me. Those word I highlighted in particular.
It's a good thing you're not letting his background convince you to say with him out of pity. I mean, it sucks that anyone (even jerks) have to go through their parents' divorce. Especially if the two of them are so open as to argue in front of the son/daughter. I'm sure it's even tough for adults... But none the less, he's not your luggage. You did what you could and he responded the way he did. The end result is that he's content and you're far from it. That's really all there is to it.
NOPE it is NOT just you. it's other mature people like me who are "put off" by that term. it's adolescent, juvenile, disrespectful...the list goes on and on...
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Is it just me or is the continuous use of the word "put out" make anybody else sick?
We were suppose to do something (yet again only at his house because he won't leave it to go elsewhere with me). I started to prepare myself but 10 minutes he called back to cancelled said he'd go to out with some friends instead. I got so angry when he said I couldn't come along the reason "I just don't like going out with you, you don't dance as much as others do"
Good to see you are leaving him, he sounds like he wants to go out without you so he can chase after other women.
men mature sooo slowly. Like at the pace of a snail. How do they ever grow?
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Originally Posted by Oobie119
DUMP him, let him get his from a tramp who doesn't need his respect. Sounds like he's a man tramp-- chances are he's cheating to get it too. You sound like a respectable girl who knows what a real relationship is about.. MOVE ON, try a guy who is a little older too, the won't be so immature!
men mature sooo slowly. Like at the pace of a snail. How do they ever grow?
Umm... bad news! They don't!
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