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What is the protocol on this? Say you just broke up and are not speaking. Is it rude or is it normal to not to say Happy Birthday after you just broke up?
My ex and I separated after Christmas and Valentines Day of that following year he sent me roses with a card that said something about old habits being hard to break. I didn't find it sweet, polite or any positive description. It felt pushy, desperate and sad. If you've broken up then let it go.
Way back in the day, I was dating a guy. He broke up with me in January, and I got roses on Valentine's Day, with no card attached.
I was casually dating someone else at the time, and it occured to me that the ex MIGHT'VE been the one to send the flowers...but I wasn't sure.
A day or so after Valentine's Day, the ex called to see if I got the flowers. I replied that I DID get them. So...they were from you? He said "Yes, who ELSE would they have been from?" I just replied "Well...I wasn't sure." LOL
What is the protocol on this? Say you just broke up and are not speaking. Is it rude or is it normal to not to say Happy Birthday after you just broke up?
If you broke up AND not speaking, then you are NOT speaking. What's confusing about that?
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