Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
I know some people think that you're supposed to love your partner no matter what size they are, I'm sorry but i don't agree. I would not be sexually attracted to my partner if he gained 50lbs and i know he wouldn't be attracted to me. He recently put on a few pounds and i told him he needs to start watching his diet and lose some weight before it becomes an issue (health/sex/appearance). How would you or have you told your partner that they need to lose a few pounds?
How about saying instead, "I think WE should take better care of ourselves. I'm going to start walking and trying to get in better shape. I really need you to help me. It's important to me."
Please read the forum rules in the Sticky thread, everyone. This topic has been discussed previously, at great length. Duplicate topics are not permitted. Thread closed.
.
__________________
My posts as a Moderator will always be in red.
Be sure to review Terms of Service: TOS And check this out: FAQ
Moderator of Canada (and sub-fora), Illinois (and sub-fora), Indiana (and sub-fora), Caregiving, Community Chat, Fashion & Beauty, Hair Care, Games/Trivia, History, Nature, Non-romantic Relationships, Psychology, Travel, Work & Employment, Writing.
___________________________
~ Life's a gift. Don't waste it. ~
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
