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Old 04-06-2019, 12:44 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Originally Posted by CityWhiteWeathers View Post
I was being myself..
... and I guess he didn't like what he saw.
I don't blame him, though - you two weren't compatible, you said that you have another companion you met and going to spend time with him. So, he didn't feel obligated to spend money and time on something that wasn't going to work.
I think you're holding a grudge against him for not trying harder to wow you (AKA devoting time and spending lots of money on you).
But you weren't abandoned. You announced
or let him feel that you were "totally OK" with him working those days B and C, because you already met someone else to spend time with.
So, actually - I don't know what's the problem.

When you go to meet a man for the first time, it doesn't matter if he lives in the same city or another country - you need to count with possible disappointment.
This was a disappointment for both of you.
Move on...

Last edited by elnina; 04-06-2019 at 12:54 AM..
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Old 04-06-2019, 03:43 AM
 
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... and I guess he didn't like what he saw.
I don't blame him, though - you two weren't compatible, you said that you have another companion you met and going to spend time with him. So, he didn't feel obligated to spend money and time on something that wasn't going to work.
I think you're holding a grudge against him for not trying harder to wow you (AKA devoting time and spending lots of money on you).
But you weren't abandoned. You announced
or let him feel that you were "totally OK" with him working those days B and C, because you already met someone else to spend time with.
So, actually - I don't know what's the problem.

When you go to meet a man for the first time, it doesn't matter if he lives in the same city or another country - you need to count with possible disappointment.
This was a disappointment for both of you.
Move on...
Thank you, we met in another country before.
But I think we didn’t have much spark.
Totally not compatible.
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Old 04-06-2019, 07:12 PM
 
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Isn't it rude like I was in his country and he is a guy.
Acting like that just cuz he didn't get sex turns out very narrow minded.
he's 23 at that age ….. men have two brains and not enough blood for both.....

move along … find someone your own age or closer... for many reasons ….if you are looking for a relationship

Last edited by elnina; 04-07-2019 at 02:10 AM..
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Old 04-06-2019, 10:49 PM
 
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We are Europeans:)
Probably I m high maintenance but usually dinner cost me around 100Euro so i wasnt happy about tgat part but I acted nice.
Oh, you're just an absolute gem. *rolls eyes*
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Old 04-07-2019, 09:21 AM
 
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Oh, you're just an absolute gem. *rolls eyes*
Wow for a absolute gem a dinner should cost like 200$
€50 is like college students
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Old 04-07-2019, 09:23 AM
 
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he's 23 at that age ….. men have two brains and not enough blood for both.....

move along … find someone your own age or closer... for many reasons ….if you are looking for a relationship
Yeah I think so' too.
I don't care anymore just haven't had this kind of bad experience before.
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