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Old 04-06-2019, 03:33 PM
 
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I received a text from her saying "hey I am in your area today with my sister and we are going to have brunch at this jazz place"

1. Was that her way of wanting me to ask her to come and see me?

2. Was actually on a 1st date with another man in my area from dating app?


Just thought it was odd she never mentioned seeing me while she in town.
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Old 04-06-2019, 03:41 PM
 
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I will never understand when someone has a clear line of communication to the person they are seeing yet still ask other people what that person means when they say something.

You've been dating this woman a month, why can't you ask her these questions?

Are you sure you should be dating?
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Old 04-06-2019, 03:49 PM
 
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I will never understand when someone has a clear line of communication to the person they are seeing yet still ask other people what that person means when they say something.

You've been dating this woman a month, why can't you ask her these questions?

Are you sure you should be dating?

True but when I woke this morning I wasn't expecting her to pop in my area like that.
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Old 04-06-2019, 03:51 PM
 
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I will never understand when someone has a clear line of communication to the person they are seeing yet still ask other people what that person means when they say something.

You've been dating this woman a month, why can't you ask her these questions?

Are you sure you should be dating?
Right!

I think she should spell it out for him.

I m I n t h e a r e a W o u l d. Y o u. L I k e. T o. S e e. M e. ?
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Old 04-06-2019, 03:52 PM
 
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Right!

I think she should spell it out for him.

I m I n t h e a r e a W o u l d. Y o u. L I k e. T o. S e e. M e. ?

That's what happens when you are half sleep. damm
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Old 04-06-2019, 03:53 PM
 
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Reply, “AWESOME! Will I get to see you?”
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Old 04-06-2019, 04:04 PM
 
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She obviously is fishing to see if you want to see her.
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Old 04-06-2019, 04:05 PM
 
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I will never understand when someone has a clear line of communication to the person they are seeing yet still ask other people what that person means when they say something.

You've been dating this woman a month, why can't you ask her these questions?

Are you sure you should be dating?
Thank you for saying this. I always wonder why people don't simply ask the person what they mean when they are unsure.

In this case, I do think it was pretty juvenile if that was the exact quote. Why not add on "would you like to join us?" or have a coffee afterwards, or something. It's like she gave him half a sentence. What was the point of texting if she wasn't going to ask him to meet up? Is she fishing for him to do the asking? Ugh, so childish.
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Old 04-06-2019, 04:09 PM
 
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She wants to see you. The sister is a triple function: allows her not to look desperate by traveling alone to see you, and if you don't bite on the offer, then she has an emotional out by continuing her plans with her sister, sans you, but any future plans with you are unnafected as it's a no harm, no foul if it turns out you already had things going on/are too busy to meet.
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Old 04-06-2019, 04:15 PM
 
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I will never understand when someone has a clear line of communication to the person they are seeing yet still ask other people what that person means when they say something.
Half the threads on here if not more.
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