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Basically my ex contacted me after she found out i was talking to a friend of hers and congratulated me. After a long conversation she brought up about hanging out with me. i agreed and then asked why and she said it was because she missed me.
We already have agreed to meetup but recently i found out she started talking to some other guy and im extremely confused as what to do. A lot of you guys said to be careful and i agree but now i feel completely manipulated. I feel like i should just ignore her and cancel to meetup but i will only be acting out of frustration. What should i do from here on out?
Basically my ex contacted me after she found out i was talking to a friend of hers and congratulated me. After a long conversation she brought up about hanging out with me. i agreed and then asked why and she said it was because she missed me.
We already have agreed to meetup but recently i found out she started talking to some other guy and im extremely confused as what to do. A lot of you guys said to be careful and i agree but now i feel completely manipulated. I feel like i should just ignore her and cancel to meetup but i will only be acting out of frustration. What should i do from here on out?
Exes are usually "ex" for a reason.
Yes, cancel, and just say you've had second thoughts and don't think it's a good idea to meet up.
Basically my ex contacted me after she found out i was talking to a friend of hers and congratulated me. After a long conversation she brought up about hanging out with me. i agreed and then asked why and she said it was because she missed me.
We already have agreed to meetup but recently i found out she started talking to some other guy and im extremely confused as what to do. A lot of you guys said to be careful and i agree but now i feel completely manipulated. I feel like i should just ignore her and cancel to meetup but i will only be acting out of frustration. What should i do from here on out?
Cancel the meeting and move on.
You're obsessed with her for so many months now - nothing good came out of it.
Also, stop creating threads about her. You were advised what to do, but you don't listen.
It's enough now.
it's like re-heating left-overs not as good as first time around and you can easily get food poisoning...
Hahahaha. Excellent analogy. I'm sorry but I might steal that But yes, I agree. Exes as friends doesn't work most of the time. Sometimes it does and it depends on the relationship you had with them and how you ended it. Sometimes the relationship runs its course and both sides mutually agree it's best to end and stay platonic, but it's rare. My best friend and I were in a serious relationship and it didn't work out. But we went to high school together and were close then before we entered the relationship. The breakup was rough and we didn't talk for years and eventually (long story short) we reconnected. Honestly it's the best friendship I have. We help each other with our relationships, visit each other and hang. It's strictly platonic now and it's great. But this is the exception to the rule and is extremely rare.
Why waste your time? Stop being confused. My crystal ball says......... Look towards your future and not your oast.
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But yes, I agree. Exes as friends doesn't work most of the time. Sometimes it does and it depends on the relationship you had with them and how you ended it. Sometimes the relationship runs its course and both sides mutually agree it's best to end and stay platonic, but it's rare. My best friend and I were in a serious relationship and it didn't work out. But we went to high school together and were close then before we entered the relationship. The breakup was rough and we didn't talk for years and eventually (long story short) we reconnected. Honestly it's the best friendship I have. We help each other with our relationships, visit each other and hang. It's strictly platonic now and it's great. But this is the exception to the rule and is extremely rare.
