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I'll try to be straight forward. I've been talking to a girl from England in a long distance relationship. She's great, love her personality and I know she likes me back. Trouble is....I found a picture of her with no makeup, and it wasn't a selfie or photoshopped. Out of all her pictures it's the only one I don't like. I'm just confused how she can look like a 10 in selfies but a 5 in that pic? Am I seeing reality or is it just 1 bad pic?
The pic does not matter. The fact that you care about the pic is what matters.
That's the point of makeup. Especially true of makeup and photographs. It's amazing how different I can look with just a little mascara and eyeliner in photos versus without, even if it doesn't look like I'm wearing makeup at all.
But real talk: the problem with online "relationships" is that you fall for the idea of someone, not the person themselves. That's abundantly clear by your response here.
I'll try to be straight forward. I've been talking to a girl from England in a long distance relationship. She's great, love her personality and I know she likes me back. Trouble is....I found apicture of her with no makeup, and it wasn't a selfie or photoshopped. Out of all her pictures it's the only one I don't like. I'm just confused how she can look like a 10 in selfies but a 5 in that pic? Am I seeing reality or is it just 1 bad pic?
Where/how did you find the picture of her without makeup?
If you're going to do a long-distance relationship with someone you met on the internet, you'd better be prepared for lots of deception, mistrust, and above all else, drama.
I'll try to be straight forward. I've been talking to a girl from England in a long distance relationship. She's great, love her personality and I know she likes me back. Trouble is....I found a picture of her with no makeup, and it wasn't a selfie or photo-shopped. Out of all her pictures it's the only one I don't like. I'm just confused how she can look like a 10 in selfies but a 5 in that pic? Am I seeing reality or is it just 1 bad pic?
Since you do not want to travel to meet her, that tells me the 2 of you have not been out on a date.
So how can you call her your girlfriend if you have not been on a date with her?
Last edited by snugglegirl05; 04-12-2019 at 07:57 AM..
I appreciate the feedback. It did cross my mind to ask for pics but I don't want to make her uncomfortable. I do want to meet but I'd hate to go 5000 miles to meet someone I'm not attracted to. Yikes!
Why are you even wasting each other's time? You are likely NEVER going to meet her in person, so why even get hung up on her picture?
You do not have a girlfriend. What you have is a pen pal.
Lift up your eyes from the computer screen and talk to the actual people all around you.
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