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It sounds like he is considering his choices and, as of right now, it might be that you are the best he can get. Now you have to decide if he is the best you can get. That is why he is telling you to accept him as he is.
For goodness sake, the guy is not that interested in you. Full stop.
If you want to go on with a relationship like that, it's up to you. That's what he is saying. He's never going to be what you want him to be - because he's just not that into you.
Do yourself a favor and break it off. He's not going to do it, probably because he's getting sex from you and is willing to keep it up just for that. But this is never going anywhere. Never.
For goodness sake, the guy is not that interested in you. Full stop.
If you want to go on with a relationship like that, it's up to you. That's what he is saying. He's never going to be what you want him to be - because he's just not that into you.
Do yourself a favor and break it off. He's not going to do it, probably because he's getting sex from you and is willing to keep it up just for that. But this is never going anywhere. Never.
He say he does not want to be with me
He said, “it’s up to up to me” And that’s what’s so confusing.
because raised with things I was not happy.
But like someone said he is not bothered, if I stay or go.
If he can't say to you "I want to be with you," not something vague like that he could take you or leave you so you get to choose... he doesn't want to be with you. Or certainly doesn't want to be with you enough for you to waste your time with him. "It's up to you" is what you say when your friends ask if you want Italian or Chinese for dinner and you really don't give a crap either way. Do you want to be in a relationship with someone who really doesn't give a crap either way?? The only upside to it is that at least his attitude isn't "Oh hell no get away from me." That's not... really... an upside, to say "well at least they don't despise me." I want to be with someone who 100% is into me and 100% knows they want to be with me... no "yeah I guess," no "eh it's all right," no "whatever," but "Yes, I want to be with you, definitely." Otherwise what's the point?
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