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Old 04-23-2019, 08:44 AM
 
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I didn’t know you adopted srjth. Good for you

Or are you asking for a friend? ��

I haven't adopted. Lol
I just think too much.

 
Old 04-23-2019, 08:44 AM
 
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Another big plus to that is her body hasn't gone through the trauma of carrying an birthing a child.
Meaning what, exactly?
 
Old 04-23-2019, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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Meaning what, exactly?
Thats not self explanatory? I'm not going to get into details on that.
 
Old 04-23-2019, 08:50 AM
 
Location: 404
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Someone who does all the parenting now could still do that in a relationship. I could see a stepkid as something like a cousin, roommate, etc. Cat care is my limit of parenting.
 
Old 04-23-2019, 08:59 AM
 
Location: California
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When you take the mom, you take the child, equally

Package deal

You need to have adoration and love for them both.


Not just think of your own needs being met by the mom.


Otherwise it is best not to date single moms
 
Old 04-23-2019, 09:04 AM
 
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Thats not self explanatory? I'm not going to get into details on that.
No, it's not self explanatory. What kind of details would those be? If you are making a judgement call on women's bodies I would love to know what sort of standards single mothers who have birthed children need in order to measure up to be desirable physical partners. All I'm asking is for you to clarify your position so you can be understood clearly.
 
Old 04-23-2019, 09:05 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I said before that I would never get involved with a single mom. If I did, she would have to be extremely amazing for me to do so.

Well, I married one cause she's a great mother plus a terrific wife. Her son just recently turned 3 and he's a well behaved child.

If her son was bad, I don't think I could've pursued things further. But she and him are a ray of sunshine for me.
 
Old 04-23-2019, 09:10 AM
 
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I said before that I would never get involved with a single mom. If I did, she would have to be extremely amazing for me to do so.

Well, I married one cause she's a great mother plus a terrific wife. Her son just recently turned 3 and he's a well behaved child.

If her son was bad, I don't think I could've pursued things further. But she and him are a ray of sunshine for me.

Awww you don't know how happy it makes me to see you have turned into a different guy! It's so sweet and lovely.
 
Old 04-23-2019, 09:16 AM
 
Location: CasaMo
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I have a question for you. What if a single mom adopted a child, would that make a difference?
No.
 
Old 04-23-2019, 09:24 AM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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No, it's not self explanatory. What kind of details would those be? If you are making a judgement call on women's bodies I would love to know what sort of standards single mothers who have birthed children need in order to measure up to be desirable physical partners. All I'm asking is for you to clarify your position so you can be understood clearly.
Are you telling me carrying a child doesn't change a woman's body? For the record, I've dated single moms, so its not a deterrent to me. I was trying to be a bit humorous and its backfiring.
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