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Old 04-24-2019, 11:14 PM
 
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He's looking for escorts because he wants to find escorts to meet.

Is this acceptable to you?
Yes? Are you going to be there for him when he gets back OP? Put a box of condoms in his suitcase, and stock up for when he gets home then. This is too obvious to play dumb about.
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Old 04-24-2019, 11:48 PM
 
Location: California Bay Area
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He's going to have sex with hookers and I can guarantee he already has cheated on you.
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Old 04-25-2019, 04:02 AM
 
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Maybe he is searching for a Ford Escort. Good horsepower and fuel economy.
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Old 04-25-2019, 04:19 AM
 
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Why indeed.

Usually, the most obvious answer is the correct one.

He is searching for escorts so he can make a decision about which one to have sex with when he is on his business trip.
Now, now. Maybe he just wants someone to keep him company at dinner.

Why do people stay in relationships for 8 years snooping from the lack of trust and then ask such a rhetorical question?
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Old 04-25-2019, 04:20 AM
 
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Maybe he is searching for a Ford Escort. Good horsepower and fuel economy.
Unfortunately high mileage.
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Old 04-25-2019, 12:05 PM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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He is looking for a quick hook-up, that will not include any strings.

In your relationship with him, there is some drive of his that has been left unanswered.

You can view this as his need to cheat and you can end it. Feeling righteous, and hurt.

Or you can see this as a wake-up call to dig in and find out what he needs from the relationship.

The next step is yours.
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Old 04-25-2019, 10:34 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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I've been where you are now.
There's no working through this. Chances are he's been doing this ever since you caught him before. Some people are cheaters, its just who they are. RUN before things get worse and trust me they can get so much worse.
One thing I was not prepared for was hearing what he told the other women about me in order to make them feel sorry for him.
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Old 04-25-2019, 11:01 PM
 
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OP hasn't been back since her post.
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Old 04-25-2019, 11:11 PM
 
Location: California
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This relationship was already toxic and should have ended long ago. If you're violating someone's privacy (an offense I think he should dump you for either way), then the relationship is over anyway.

Why do people stay in relationships they don't trust and then do all this sneaky detective work trying to figure out what's up? I will never understand this.

In my opinion, you're both toxic and should break up and spend a long time alone figuring yourselves out.
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Old 04-27-2019, 05:38 AM
 
Location: North America
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OP hasn't been back since her post.
Perhaps she has learned to provide what her boyfriend was looking for.
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