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Old 05-03-2019, 12:47 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Or delighted to self sabotage or delighted to receive confirmation for your overly analytical thoughts. Just my opinion.

Carry your relationships or interactions in the way you wish. Your mind seems made up, you don't really "need" anyone's advice.
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Old 05-03-2019, 12:55 PM
 
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He contacted me and we set up time.

But definitely he did seem to give me the runaround.
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Old 05-03-2019, 01:01 PM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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He contacted me and we set up time.

But definitely he did seem to give me the runaround.


Now, OP - if he doesn't contact you between now and then, don't freak out!
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Old 05-03-2019, 01:04 PM
 
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The thing with online dating you never know.
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Old 05-03-2019, 01:05 PM
 
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Dating in real life doesn't guarantee anything either. You never know with "people" in general. If you want a partner in life, you'll have to learn to be okay with uncertainty.
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Old 05-03-2019, 01:10 PM
 
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He contacted me and we set up time.

But definitely he did seem to give me the runaround.
You should definitely confront him about this. Let him know in the strongest terms that you do not appreciate his treatment of you. Then give him the full lists of dos and don'ts as to how to communicate with you, how often, and maximum acceptable time between texts. And make sure he pays for the date.

This guy is totally disrespecting you!
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Old 05-03-2019, 01:21 PM
 
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Hahaha i have the whip with me just in case :-))))
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Old 05-03-2019, 03:04 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Do you realize how much crap you put yourself (and us) through all day today?
Will you learn anything from it or will you be posting again every time you don't hear from him as soon as you think you should??
Like tomorrow when he didn't text you to say Good Morning?
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Old 05-03-2019, 04:18 PM
 
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“Wanna go out next Saturday?”
“With me?”
“Yeah with you.”
“Yeah but where?
“The cocktail place.”
“Ok. I think you sound like you want to go out but after you go home you will change your mind. I will text you and you will say you still wanna meet but after a couple days you will stop texting me and then I will be right. If you did really want to go out with me then you would have set up a time and not just a day. Since you didn’t pick a time then you really don’t want to go out with me. Why you will probably make an excuse about your leg hurting.
“No, I will be there even with my leg hurting.”
“Yeah, but I’m sure the more you think about it you will change your mind and cancel because that’s what guys do. They don’t want to continue conversing. So when I text you somehow you will find an excuse not to want to meet me. So you will most definitely cancel our date.”
“Ok, so let’s not go out then.”
“See! I knew that’s what you would do!!”
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Old 05-03-2019, 04:35 PM
 
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I will be interested to see if he cancels.
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