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He’s being friendly. You should continue to be friendly and relax that she’s with you now.
Don’t make it weird.
What ever happened with the dude in the elevator?
Was that the old guy whom the OP wanted to confront for “staring” at his g/f? I have a dog that’s been trained to watch over and protect me... He’s got nothin on this guy.
So what exactly is the issue here? Handle it like an adult - are you an adult? Sounds like high school drama.
The issue is that she downplayed the situation at first. At first she told me he was some guy that she used to see in the store, that he was some guy that liked her and tried to get her number. Then after me bringing that situation later on that night, questioning her, she told me they had a one night stand.
I just wonder why she downplayed the situation before telling the truth. If I was never on the phone that day he spoke to her I would’ve never known she used to mess around with this guy.
I am the jealous type so maybe that’s why she downplayed it or didn’t tell me. It just makes me feel like it was more than a one night stand due to her lying about the situation at first
Almost a week ago I was hanging out with a few of my buddies who live in another hood now. I left around midnight and was walking to the bus which is a 15 minute walk. I’m cutting through another hood and I see like 7 or 8 dudes smoking and drinking by the bus stop. One of the dudes happened to be him, my gf old friend/ex. He recognized me and spoke. We talked until the bus came. He knew my homies that I was just chillin wit. He knew one of my homies cause his brother used to mess with my homie sister. He said that was years ago little kid stuff. He then was telling me that he lives with his girl and kids in my building but he’s usually out here in his hood most of the time. He then asked me for my number and invited me to his family cookout.
moral of the story is that if he wanted to be an a-hole he could’ve did it especially being that I was walking through his hood late at night. I thought maybe it was a little weird that he asked for my number but at the same time he doesn’t know that I know him and my girl messed around in the past.
Should I bring it up or just leave it unsaid about me knowing him and my girl messed around in the past
Almost a week ago I was hanging out with a few of my buddies who live in another hood now. I left around midnight and was walking to the bus which is a 15 minute walk. I’m cutting through another hood and I see like 7 or 8 dudes smoking and drinking by the bus stop. One of the dudes happened to be him, my gf old friend/ex. He recognized me and spoke. We talked until the bus came. He knew my homies that I was just chillin wit. He knew one of my homies cause his brother used to mess with my homie sister. He said that was years ago little kid stuff. He then was telling me that he lives with his girl and kids in my building but he’s usually out here in his hood most of the time. He then asked me for my number and invited me to his family cookout.
moral of the story is that if he wanted to be an a-hole he could’ve did it especially being that I was walking through his hood late at night. I thought maybe it was a little weird that he asked for my number but at the same time he doesn’t know that I know him and my girl messed around in the past.
Should I bring it up or just leave it unsaid about me knowing him and my girl messed around in the past
Don't bring anything up. Let the past alone and let it GO! But, if you just can't resist poking a sleeping bear with that stick...
I think the whole thing is probably really awkward for her, she's probably trying to avoid making it an issue or making you more uncomfortable by bringing him up.
_ Damn, just saw this was old as hell, and there's an update...lol
I'd keep it cool but probably take a step back from this dude, you don't want to have him coming over to your place while she's around...
I think there is nothing you can do to 'keep' someone with you - either they want to be with you or they dont and if they dont, then you would be better off knowing sooner rather than later and you both move on.
A partner should be happy with you and choose to be with you or leave. Thats my take on life.
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Don't bring anything up. Let the past alone and let it GO! But, if you just can't resist poking a sleeping bear with that stick...
