would you break up with your Bf or Gf if they didn't want kids & you did...or the other way around? (guys, young)
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Originally Posted by RbccL
Now we know why he doesn’t want to have a baby with you. $$
It is so silly when strangers on the internet think they know people better than they know each other..........why are you so bitter you want to pick us apart?
He doesn't want a baby in 3 to 5 yrs because of his age ..... it's nothing to do with money...he has plenty.
It is so silly when strangers on the internet think they know people better than they know each other..........why are you so bitter you want to pick us apart?
He doesn't want a baby in 3 to 5 yrs because of his age ..... it's nothing to do with money...he has plenty.
Doesn’t want to give you half when you leave, like the last guy. He’s not that old, just thinking ahead. Like an attorney.
Location: As of 2022….back to SoCal. OC this time!
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Originally Posted by RbccL
Doesn’t want to give you half when you leave, like the last guy. He’s not that old, just thinking ahead. Like an attorney.
So....you know him personally & know him better than I do...? How would you know how he feels about kids or me or money? This thread is not discussing him or why he made the decision he made.....it's for me to be Ok with it...& still move in together.
For you...but that is the question I am putting out there. Some may decide they love their Bf or Gf more than the thought of a child one day.....& others would be adamant about having a child & risk finding someone else to partner or marry.
It is good for you that you have no regrets, tho it can be a big risk....
Picking a partner with whom you do not share this important desire is a HUGE risk.
Oh...I'm ready.....as long as he is able to get me out of my lease.......
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Originally Posted by wasel
Why would HE be trying to get you out of YOUR lease?
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Originally Posted by TashaPosh
So that I don't have to do it...or pay a high amount to break it.
But why don't you want to do it? You've made a big deal out of making sure everyone knows you are "doing all this on your own." Taking care of your own housing affairs would be in that category. It seems to go against what you say you're "about."
And how could HE get the fee reduced? Does he have some connection to the owner of this apartment complex?
I won't push him into a vasectomy because I would like us to be able to decide for sure in a few yrs if we have a baby or not.
It sounds like he's already sure. Do you think you'll change his mind?
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