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Old 07-13-2019, 08:33 AM
 
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We had breakfast this morning, and we are going to the beach next weekend . she now grabs my hand or me when we walk or are together. I do work on her rental properties and she pays me direct on some jobs. But she told me today to turn in all work to property management because she says she feels werid paying me now that we are a couple. I don't know what to make of that. I do feel a little strange because of our money differences , I am not rich, but not poor. she is rich but down to earth. I guess it's just the man should be the one financial superior mentally , man that don't sound right after typing it. Oh well I will be me, for better or worse. looking forward to next weekend .
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Old 07-13-2019, 08:39 AM
 
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The way she invited herself was she ask me if I was going to take a vacation this fall. I have been doing this for over a decade. I just replied yes, already have my room book. then she just said I will go with you it will be fun. then said 1 or 2 beds . I kinda was thrown back and said 2. and here we are.
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Old 07-13-2019, 10:21 AM
 
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We had breakfast this morning, and we are going to the beach next weekend . she now grabs my hand or me when we walk or are together. I do work on her rental properties and she pays me direct on some jobs. But she told me today to turn in all work to property management because she says she feels werid paying me now that we are a couple. I don't know what to make of that. I do feel a little strange because of our money differences , I am not rich, but not poor. she is rich but down to earth. I guess it's just the man should be the one financial superior mentally , man that don't sound right after typing it. Oh well I will be me, for better or worse. looking forward to next weekend .
It's not that way anymore.

For your generation, maybe.

Women support men all the time. And it's common now to have a stay at home husband who doesn't even take care of the kids because they are in daycare. But still stays at home because he can't make enough.

As long as you can support your own lifestyle, you're good.
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Old 07-16-2019, 10:46 PM
 
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The beach is a no go for now, weather is questionable. But she decided that we are going to Vegas. Booked tonight, leave in 2 weeks. I have never flew anywhere. I am a little nervous, not really about flying but going so far away. I made my mind up to have and enjoy this adventure
Never been to a casino, but she mainly goes for the shows and shopping. But said she will stand by side if I decide to play. This "relationship" is quite surprising.
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Old 07-17-2019, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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The beach is a no go for now, weather is questionable. But she decided that we are going to Vegas. Booked tonight, leave in 2 weeks. I have never flew anywhere. I am a little nervous, not really about flying but going so far away. I made my mind up to have and enjoy this adventure
Never been to a casino, but she mainly goes for the shows and shopping. But said she will stand by side if I decide to play. This "relationship" is quite surprising.
Wow, I just read all this. Man, I'm excited for you! Can I just live vicariously through you? Relax and enjoy it. You deserve a getaway with a woman you're interested in.
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Old 07-18-2019, 08:59 PM
 
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Quick update, had dinner tonight it was good as always. We both laugh at trying to explain things, then we both grab our phones for translations. She e email me the travel details, flight times and hotel. I did notice she booked a king bed instead of 2 queens. Interesting....... She thinks I need to relax more and promises we will . I am excited for this trip , we'll see how this goes.
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Old 07-19-2019, 11:44 AM
 
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Wow, I just read all this. Man, I'm excited for you! Can I just live vicariously through you? Relax and enjoy it. You deserve a getaway with a woman you're interested in.
Me too! I'm excited for him! I'd love this. 😁
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Old 07-24-2019, 10:22 AM
 
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well a few more days till we leave for Vegas. we still have been going out for dinner. She bought me a bunch of clothes for the trip which I didn't need. but she seems happy in doing so. I sent flowers to her work and she was so excited about that.And we are officially boyfriend girlfriend now. the excitement seems to be building between us as we get closer to our trip,At this point I wouldn't care if we was going to Nebraska. I'm loving it!!
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Old 07-24-2019, 10:28 AM
 
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we will be sharing the room
she is divorced,
i am a widower.
She seems to like me ,
she is always smiling
happy when we are together.
She is looking forward to this
she did invite herself
i do like her
she's like me. I
it could be quite the adventure.

thoughts?
go for it!
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Old 07-24-2019, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Florida
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well a few more days till we leave for Vegas. we still have been going out for dinner. She bought me a bunch of clothes for the trip which I didn't need. but she seems happy in doing so. I sent flowers to her work and she was so excited about that.And we are officially boyfriend girlfriend now. the excitement seems to be building between us as we get closer to our trip,At this point I wouldn't care if we was going to Nebraska. I'm loving it!!
I would see this so dif3erently if you hadn't spent time together already.....but you have
Sounds like a promising start.
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