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Old 07-09-2019, 10:32 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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You have literally told him “you don’t have to go but if you don’t go you are no longer important to me” and still wonder why he wouldn’t care to be in time?

Please
I didn't read her statement that way. I think she told him he doesn't have to go, but then subsequently, she's been questioning what the point is in having him around, if he's not going to participate in family activities and get-togethers.

This doesn't sound like an engaged couple.

 
Old Yesterday, 02:47 AM
 
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The definition of insanity - doing the same thing over and over again, yet expecting a different result....
 
Old Yesterday, 03:59 AM
 
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The definition of insanity - doing the same thing over and over again, yet expecting a different result....
Over...and over...and over...and over...and over...and over...and over...and over...
 
Old Yesterday, 04:15 AM
 
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....AND over, and over...and over...
 
Old Yesterday, 06:16 AM
 
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He enjoys "punishing" you for making him do something he doesn't care about, so stop giving him the power to make you mad/frustrated. That is exactly what he is trying to do. Simply tell him calmly and in few words that if he is not ready to go at the deccided time, you will leave without him. Keep doing it until he changes. If he keeps it up, I personally would re-think the relationship. To me his behavior signifies selfishness and lacking in caring about you & your kids.

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Who watches youtube in the bathroom. That is strange.

He sounds very immature. I can't imagine any grown man I know doing that.
 
Old Yesterday, 06:28 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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I didn't read her statement that way. I think she told him he doesn't have to go, but then subsequently, she's been questioning what the point is in having him around, if he's not going to participate in family activities and get-togethers.

This doesn't sound like an engaged couple.
Sounds like an enraged one.
 
Old Yesterday, 06:35 AM
 
Location: Watervliet, NY
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Your username would be so much more apt if so many of the 5th world problems you complain about on C-D weren't of your own making.

If he's not ready on time, then just LEAVE him home.
 
Old Yesterday, 06:45 AM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston
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Leave him outside the door and change locks would be even better, but very needy and desperate people rather put up with that crap than live alone.
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Old Yesterday, 07:03 AM
 
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If he doesnt want to go, then leave without him. Nagging isnt working. You might ask yourself, did you nag him into moving in, or nag him to give you a ring? How much is he really interested in you?
 
Old Yesterday, 07:37 AM
 
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If he doesnt want to go, then leave without him. Nagging isnt working. You might ask yourself, did you nag him into moving in, or nag him to give you a ring? How much is he really interested in you?
A deadbeat provided with room and board almost immediately? VERY interested. In the room and board.
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