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Old Yesterday, 09:13 PM
 
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So I 'm left with the assumption that you give him free room and board, while he provides sex and plays bf? If thats true, I dont blame you for being mad, as he's not holding up his end of the bargain. Maybe you havent been clear about the conditions of your relationship.

 
Old Yesterday, 09:36 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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So I 'm left with the assumption that you give him free room and board, while he provides sex and plays bf? If thats true, I dont blame you for being mad, as he's not holding up his end of the bargain. Maybe you havent been clear about the conditions of your relationship.
They're engaged, though. She calls him her "fiancť". So at this point, it should be beyond mere "playing" bf. Or...? Is "engaged" the new "going steady"? Is that what these open-ended engagements with no wedding date in sight are about?

I can't keep up.
 
Old Yesterday, 09:39 PM
 
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Old Yesterday, 10:08 PM
 
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Old Today, 02:00 AM
 
Location: Earth
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You are correct. I just donít see the point of him, if he doesnít do things with us and around the house.

I canít just change the locks. He has to leave on his own or I need a court order. Frankly, I only have money and energy to deal with one court case at a time and my sons father is using that up, yet again. I do remind him often that he isnít here for his good looks and he needs to make it worthwhile for me to deal with him.
Yet you deal with him anyway, while putting him down & insulting him on top of it. Given you don't like sex, expect him to be your servant to kids that aren't his, and tell him he's ugly & useless if he's not catering to you, is it any wonder he's not jumping up & down to do anything for you.

From his end, it can be argued he puts up with you for the free room & board since your're not good for companionship. And you put up with him for whatever scraps of chores he actually does do.

Either keep up with this mutual using arrangement, or get rid of him. I don't know why you post here to complain when nobody ever has any different advice for you. So get rational advice you ignore, then abandon the thread only to make a new one to complain about the same exact issue. I have to wonder how serious these posts are or if everyone here is being scammed by a teenager. lol

In the end, BOTH of you seem to have issues. Neither of you is happy, but willing to except the craps you get for one reason or another.

So you have 2 options.
1. Kick him to the curb & stop dating because you clearly don't care about love or companionship, so much as having a servant who will take care of your messes for you.
2. Stick with the newest bad guy you have (or created) & stop whining. Because at this point, it's your own fault you're unhappy when you keep dating bad men.
 
Old Today, 02:44 AM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston
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I can’t just change the locks. He has to leave on his own or I need a court order. Frankly, I only have money and energy to deal with one court case at a time and my sons father is using that up, yet again.
Why? Do you have a joint lease? Is that his place?
Does he work? Is he a provider?
If not, then of course you can kick him out. Changing a lock cost $50, but YOU don't want that. You want him, because you're low on luck with guys. Every each one is a disaster, including the father of your kids.
What your kids think about you and your lousy boyfriend's? Are you a role model for your kids?Do they even respect you, or your "fiance"?
How do you see your "marriage" and future with him?
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Old Today, 09:17 AM
 
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OP, leave your s.o. or not, but do not expect anyone here to change their advice given over and over again in previous threads you've started about him. This thread is now CLOSED.
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