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Old 07-10-2019, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Crook County, Illinois
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That was a response to the questions: how many hours/week does he work. Sorry to learn you're not able to follow the discussion.
I think ysr_racer here was being facetious.
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Old 07-10-2019, 09:16 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I think ysr_racer here was being facetious.
Oh, you mean like those strange-looking men that live under bridges? Really? No! He wouldn't do that!
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Old 07-11-2019, 12:04 AM
 
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either has low sex drive or is not very much into you


If I was a woman, I wouldn't be ok with either option
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Old 07-11-2019, 08:45 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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either has low sex drive or is not very much into you


If I was a woman, I wouldn't be ok with either option
yep. Short and to the point.

And it is not coming back, I guarantee you this. Once it is gone, it is gone.
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Old 07-11-2019, 03:24 PM
 
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Hiii you guys heres the situation. me & my boyfriend have been together for a year and within the year when it comes to sex or any sexual type activities I am the initiater. we dont usually have sex often because of work so its like once MAYBE (I cant stress this enough) twice every other weekend. But for the past month everytime I suggest sex he’s to stressed, tired from work or just doesnt feel like it. We’ve talked about why he feels the way he feels and I understand.. I also understand I cant force him into it or nag him about it because it would make matters worse. My question is how can I deal with being rejected moving forward in the relationship? It kind of bruised my ego and I dont want to have resentment when he does decide he’s “in the mood” any helpful suggestions?
I love threads like this. I would never turn down sex unless I was puking my guts out. It seems like the realization is, most couples are mismatched.
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Old 07-11-2019, 03:39 PM
 
Location: New to Bay Area
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I love threads like this. I would never turn down sex unless I was puking my guts out. It seems like the realization is, most couples are mismatched.
Lol...this is like most men I know. My Bf would have to be on his death bed......
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Old 07-11-2019, 04:30 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Yeah, I've worked construction in 120 degree weather and passed out from a heat stroke and I was still able to...take care of the business. I've had women tell me that heat stroke sex was the best they've ever had.


But I can see how work can wear you out and kill your libido. If you have to do strenuous work AND put up with all kinds of drama, you will be left physically AND emotionally exhausted.
I didn't know that macho men could ever be emotionally exhausted! I mean if she's right there, why would you turn it down, heatstroke, drama or not?
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Old 07-11-2019, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Ro cha cha, NY
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I didn't know that macho men could ever be emotionally exhausted! I mean if she's right there, why would you turn it down, heatstroke, drama or not?
I don't know. Maybe it's because I'm 44. But many are painting this ludicrous idea that no guy ever turns down sex. Which is completely asinine. Guys aren't always in the mood. Only on CD are guys who always want it, even if sick. I feel like it's a loose attempt at telling the op that she doesn't do it for her man. Nobody knows if that's true or not. Some guys just don't have a high libido. And sometimes it can be that simple. Guys are not always in the mood.

For instance when my friend lost his father, he had no desire for sex. His women (who's a total azz), was trying to shame him for this. His response, "I just lost my freaking dad." Of course she was too selfish to give a ****. If you live long enough, they'll be a day when you turn sex down. Life happens and we are just not always in the mood.

I feel like this thread has become, (pounding chest/growl) " Look at me, Chad Thunder pants, will have sex anywhere, anytime, and any place. Here me roar!"

If the guys not in the mood, it is not always an indictment on the women.

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Old 07-11-2019, 05:32 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA and Washington, DC
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I don't know. Maybe because I've had a lot of sex in my life and I'm 44. But many are painting this ludicrous idea that no guy ever turns down sex. Which is completely asinine. Guys aren't always in the mood. Only on CD are guys who always want it even if sick. I feel like it's a loose attempt at telling the op that she doesn't do it for her man. Nobody knows if that's true or not. Some guys just don't have a high libido. And sometimes it can be that simple. Guys are not always in the mood.

For instance when my friend lost his father, he had no desire for sex. His women (who's a total azz), was trying to shame him for this. His response, "I just lost my freaking dad." Of course she was too selfish to give a ****. If you live long enough, they'll be a day when you turn sex down. Life happens and we are just not always in the mood.

I feel like this thread has become, (pounding chest/growl) " Look at me, Chad Thunder pants, will have sex anywhere and anytime, and any place. Here me roar!"
Thank you. Apparently men aren’t allowed to be tired, depressed, and heartbroken.
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Old 07-11-2019, 06:05 PM
 
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Thank you. Apparently men aren’t allowed to be tired, depressed, and heartbroken.
Now that's crazy talk! Everybody knows that guys ALWAYS want to have sex no matter what. They can work 18 hour shifts, come home help around the house, do yard work, or have mental or physical illnesses etc etc... and STILL want sex. They're robots I tell ya
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