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Old 07-15-2019, 09:00 PM
 
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Welp she texted me saying how Iím short and not attractive so who am I to judge her. Wasnít expecting that.

Solidifes my decision even more. If Iím gonna get treated harshly by women im at least gonna go after women Iím attracted to.

Clearly unattractive ladies arenít any nicer.
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What exactly did you say to her before her response?
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Just that I had a pleasant time but wasnít gonna see her again.
That's judging her?

 
Old 07-15-2019, 09:04 PM
 
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That's judging her?
By judge I’m assuming she means how dare someone like me not be attracted to her. Kinda saying who am I to turn anyone down.
 
Old 07-15-2019, 09:17 PM
 
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Did you reply to her text?
 
Old 07-15-2019, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Welp she texted me saying how Iím short and not attractive so who am I to judge her. Wasnít expecting that.
Ugh that's terrible.
 
Old 07-15-2019, 09:27 PM
 
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Did you reply to her text?
I told her that her personality matches her looks.
 
Old 07-15-2019, 10:23 PM
 
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I told her that her personality matches her looks.

Hah, that's kind of funny.


But you'll probably get reported for saying it.
 
Old 07-15-2019, 10:40 PM
 
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Solidifes my decision even more. If Iím gonna get treated harshly by women im at least gonna go after women Iím attracted to.
There had been times where I'd not get any responses from the women that I had been attracted to, that I would go through a phase of, "Hm, wonder what kind of response would I get if I emailed someone I didn't find so attractive".

I took it down a notch, contacted a chubby gal that was into the same things I'm into. Got no response, later I found out through a friend that knew her that she wasn't physically attracted to me. I was like "Huh? Has she not looked in the mirror lately? LOL"
 
Old 07-15-2019, 10:43 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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There had been times where I'd not get any responses from the women that I had been attracted to, that I would go through a phase of, "Hm, wonder what kind of response would I get if I emailed someone I didn't find so attractive".

I took it down a notch, contacted a chubby gal that was into the same things I'm into. Got no response, later I found out through a friend that knew her that she wasn't physically attracted to me. I was like "Huh? Has she not looked in the mirror lately? LOL"
Wait...if you are chubby, you need to go out with people you don't find attractive?

Is that the rule? Or is it that if you're chubby, you're obligated to find anyone who approaches you attractive?
 
Old 07-15-2019, 10:49 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I was like "Huh? Has she not looked in the mirror lately? LOL"
You know, this whole “beggars can’t be choosers” attitude is one reason why people aren’t successful with dating.

You guys don’t like it to be said to you, but you’re sure quick to fling it back at the “chubby girl.”

“Hot” is in the eye of the beholder. None of us is going to be attractive OR attracted to everybody, and the whole leagues mindset and leveling up or down BS is keeping you deluded.

Just be kind. Even if they’re a-holes, doesn’t mean you have to be one too.

It definitely is not attractive.
 
Old 07-15-2019, 10:54 PM
 
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Hah, that's kind of funny.


But you'll probably get reported for saying it.
Whatever lol.

Stuff like what just happened is why I rarely try flirting or being proactive in trying to meet single women.

I’m just done with this sh it
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