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Old 07-18-2019, 01:42 PM
 
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Originally Posted by calipoppy View Post
I'm not understanding why the guys in the Dateless Wonders Club are making things harder than it needs to be. Its truly not that hard.

If you are fat....lose weight
If you are shy...work on building your confidence overall
If you are lazy...change that bad habit
If you are a loner...try getting out of your room/apartment/grandma's basement
If you are a slovenly pig....practice better hygiene and grooming habits
If you are poor...get a better job/start a business and make more money
If you are ugly....go make a LOT of money
I go to the gym 3 or 4 days a week I’m not ripped but far from fat

Shyness is something I’m working on

Not lazy

Not a loner

Not a pig I like dressing well

Not poor

Maybe I’m ugly not sure but I cant snap my fingers and become rich

 
Old 07-18-2019, 01:48 PM
 
Location: Polynesia
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Finding a good romantic match mostly comes down to luck and timing. It's being in the right place at the right time. But the more effort you make, the better chance you have that luck will find you. It sounds like you are doing all the right things.

Just enjoy your life and if loves finds you, consider yourself one of the lucky ones. All the best to you!
 
Old 07-18-2019, 02:00 PM
 
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Not poor
Sorry, but I thought you had a low paying job? Do you have a career or just a job? I always thought it was one of the biggest obstacles for you being single, having a low paying job. Do you live on your own?
 
Old 07-18-2019, 02:04 PM
 
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Sorry, but I thought you had a low paying job? Do you have a career or just a job? I always thought it was one of the biggest obstacles for you being single, having a low paying job. Do you live on your own?
You must be thinking of someone else.

I donít make great money but Iím fine financially
 
Old 07-18-2019, 03:35 PM
 
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You must be thinking of someone else.

I don’t make great money but I’m fine financially
All men who have trouble women are fat, short, poor, ugly losers, right?

Lol...
 
Old 07-18-2019, 03:52 PM
 
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All men who have trouble women are fat, short, poor, ugly losers, right?

Lol...
Well Iím short and possibly ugly but not fat or poor lol
 
Old 07-18-2019, 04:25 PM
 
Location: singapore
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Originally Posted by calipoppy View Post
I'm not understanding why the guys in the Dateless Wonders Club are making things harder than it needs to be. Its truly not that hard.

If you are fat....lose weight
If you are shy...work on building your confidence overall
If you are lazy...change that bad habit
If you are a loner...try getting out of your room/apartment/grandma's basement
If you are a slovenly pig....practice better hygiene and grooming habits
If you are poor...get a better job/start a business and make more money
If you are ugly....go make a LOT of money
Any similar one for dateless women ?
 
Old 07-18-2019, 04:26 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Originally Posted by Butterflyfish View Post
Finding a good romantic match mostly comes down to luck and timing. It's being in the right place at the right time. But the more effort you make, the better chance you have that luck will find you. It sounds like you are doing all the right things.

Just enjoy your life and if loves finds you, consider yourself one of the lucky ones. All the best to you!
Ehhh not to be nitpicky....but I wouldn't call it lucky or unlucky. Just something that either happens or doesn't. I just think considering oneself lucky because they experienced love is glamorizing it a bit too much for me. That and it kind of indirectly says that those who don't are unlucky or living an incomplete existence. Just an observation of mine.
 
Old 07-18-2019, 04:45 PM
 
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Any similar one for dateless women ?
Learn sports... learn the rules. Be able to discuss trades, and specific players.

Learn to handle your liquor and not be a psycho every time you consume more than 4 beers...

Learn to play the guitar ... well (though this is more for an older generation).

Learn about cars and be interested in working on them, or fixing vintage cars.

Offer to pay for dates!

Last edited by jobaba; 07-18-2019 at 04:57 PM..
 
Old 07-18-2019, 05:01 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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@BirdieBelle,

I think what your missing is that I'm not talking to forum members who I believe tend to imply or explicitly oversimplify the dating challenges of unattractive or otherwise dating challenged people. I'm talking to the dating challenged people ...
**shrug**

Again, that didnít come across.
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