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Old 07-11-2019, 07:02 PM
 
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Originally Posted by JBT1980 View Post
Oh beleive me I have a pretty diverse taste and I’m not looking for perfection. But there’s some women I just find nothing attractive about physically and can’t make it work.
JB it sounds to me, feel free to enlighten me if not so, that you mostly like (even in your diverse taste) conventionally attractive women. Cute face, nice body, proportionate curves etc...

But, are you a conventionally attractive man? Honestly are you? If you're not "hot" or even "warm", whatcha gonna do?

 
Old 07-11-2019, 07:58 PM
 
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You should never do it.

You will never get passed anything.

Most guys stare at her lips while she’s talking or her hair when she’s fixing it.

How do you get passed that?
 
Old 07-11-2019, 08:03 PM
 
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Lights can be turned off for a reason.
 
Old 07-11-2019, 08:22 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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You can’t force attraction or a preference for what you like. I believe what a person likes can change, but you can’t just flip the switch and instantaneously go from not attracted to attracted in an instant. OP has complained about his luck but it wouldn’t make sense for him to try to force it with this person. It would also be disingenuous to her. He tried, it didn’t work, and he’s not wasting her time bybstringing her along. Seems pretty reasonable to me.
 
Old 07-11-2019, 08:23 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Originally Posted by PardonTheInterruption View Post
JB it sounds to me, feel free to enlighten me if not so, that you mostly like (even in your diverse taste) conventionally attractive women. Cute face, nice body, proportionate curves etc...

But, are you a conventionally attractive man? Honestly are you? If you're not "hot" or even "warm", whatcha gonna do?
Ohhhh lord, you've gone and opened up the whole can now.

JBT probably holds a forum record for the number of threads where he tells us how ugly he is. It's a compulsion.
 
Old 07-11-2019, 08:28 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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Ohhhh lord, you've gone and opened up the whole can now.

JBT probably holds a forum record for the number of threads where he tells us how ugly he is. It's a compulsion.
I actually thought of him earlier when I read this story:

https://www.foxnews.com/food-drink/s...l-boss-tackled

 
Old 07-11-2019, 08:30 PM
 
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Ohhhh lord, you've gone and opened up the whole can now.

JBT probably holds a forum record for the number of threads where he tells us how ugly he is. It's a compulsion.
Uh ooh... what have I done? (maniacal laughter)
 
Old 07-11-2019, 08:31 PM
 
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I actually thought of him earlier when I read this story:

https://www.foxnews.com/food-drink/s...l-boss-tackled

Jesus Christ I’m not that level.. I’m self loathing at times but I don’t hate women like that dude.
 
Old 07-11-2019, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Jesus Christ I’m not that level.. I’m self loathing at times but I don’t hate women like that dude.
We know. He was kidding.

You're not psychotic. Just consistent.
 
Old 07-11-2019, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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Jesus Christ I’m not that level.. I’m self loathing at times but I don’t hate women like that dude.
Well maybe you should consider it. The guy claims to have all kinds of women trying to date him now!
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