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Old 07-22-2019, 06:53 AM
 
Location: Sugarland
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Women are much less likely to be loners in my experience. They have a greater need for socialization.

As for good looking loners, good looks always speaks for itself.

I remember we knew this half-Asian, half-white guy who was a pretty good looking guy. Almost never spoke. Zero charisma or personality. In my social circle was this girl who was a total party girl, one of the most extroverted people you'll ever meet. And she was all over it from the first minute.

I know where you're coming from though. It's like a dream of young men who are loners that they will find a cute woman who is also socially awkward, so that way her expectations aren't for a guy to have charisma through the roof just for a date.

As a generality though, even more socially awkward women have many options...
I don't think most women are expecting that whether they're loners or not. Charisma does not play a part in whether or not I'm interested in someone. And "charisma through the roof?" I can't recall ever thinking that about anyone.
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Old 07-22-2019, 07:40 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I would say I'm a loner... except I have a wife and friends.

While I do like my alone time, I enjoy spending time with my wife and bonding with my stepson.

My friends are pretty chill as well.
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Old 07-22-2019, 04:41 PM
 
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Just because someone gets attention doesn't mean the attention is welcome. Some people, even attractive people, simply want to be left alone or to socialize on their own terms.
Oh, so you're saying by choice? Sorry, I read that wrong. I mean, anyone's going to be a loner and looks have nothing to do with it if you're making a choice to be alone, obviously.
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Old 07-22-2019, 04:42 PM
 
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I would say I'm a loner... except I have a wife and friends.

While I do like my alone time, I enjoy spending time with my wife and bonding with my stepson.

My friends are pretty chill as well.
Well, you're married, you got what you want. Single people are less likely to desire being alone. This is why married people vanish into thin air once they get married and disappear from their single friends social circles. lol
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Old Today, 12:13 AM
 
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there are female introverts (dont confuse with being shy)

and female shy introverts.

As far as relationships, a relatively attractive shy female will always have a better chance at a relationship as an equally attractive, shy male. Guys will approach the shy female, girls will not approach the shy guy. Shyness is - at worse - a neutral personality trait in women, but definitely a negative one in men.
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