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Old Today, 08:50 AM
 
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Dude is not giving you any respect, just like he didn't the first time you were dating. Why would you give him a second chance to be so dismissive? Nobody is worth being treated that way.
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Old Today, 09:12 AM
 
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So I recently got back together with an ex. We had been on an off before and got back together. I did go no contact for over a year because I wanted to forget him. But he got back in contact with me and we started hanging out again. The only thing is that he has only hung out at my place(no sex) a few times and watched movies. Maybe a handful of times. We haven't gone on any dates and he rarely even contacts me between time we hang out. He has asked me to contact him any time, but yet he doesn't. He was the one that came to me and yet won't even make time to see me when I ask. He is always busy. We haven't had sex yet, but he has brought it up. How can I get the man to see this is not how I want to be treated!
Stop seeing him.
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Old Today, 09:30 AM
 
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So I recently got back together with an ex. We had been on an off before and got back together. I did go no contact for over a year because I wanted to forget him. But he got back in contact with me and we started hanging out again. The only thing is that he has only hung out at my place(no sex) a few times and watched movies. Maybe a handful of times. We haven't gone on any dates and he rarely even contacts me between time we hang out. He has asked me to contact him any time, but yet he doesn't. He was the one that came to me and yet won't even make time to see me when I ask. He is always busy. We haven't had sex yet, but he has brought it up. How can I get the man to see this is not how I want to be treated!
LOL

I'm getting a sense as to why the relationship ended in the first place. Remember and learn from your past chica.
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Old Today, 09:39 AM
 
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You don't sound back together to me. You don't sound happy. Move on.
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Old Today, 09:44 AM
 
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I would get rid of this man, he is wasting your time when you could be dating someone new.
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Old Today, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Boulder, CO
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He's trying to navigate to the point of casual, no-strings-attached, no spending money on you for dates, sex.
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Old Today, 11:28 AM
 
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It will be a repeat performance to what you saw in the past. Seems like he is in control. Kick him to the curb.
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Old Today, 11:52 AM
 
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How can I get the man to see this is not how I want to be treated!..by telling him what you've told us.Sounds like you're very frustrated with the situation as you should be BUT you need to verbally tell him what you've told us.You're not getting what you want from this relationship.
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Old Today, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Holly Springs, NC
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It's called keeping tabs on you. He wants to see that you're still single.

The day you get a serious boyfriend is the day he "wants you back".
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Old Today, 01:26 PM
 
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Actually he disappeared on me. I didn't. I tried to stay in contact with him but he was breadcrumbing me. So I just stayed away and did not contact.

And what's different now? You wrote that he doesn't contact you and expects you to initiate any communication? It takes daily effort to maintain a relationship. This guy isn't doing that. Find someone who will.
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