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Old 07-17-2019, 10:49 PM
 
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We work together.five month he was out of the country....and we have plans to go see my family this year...all my three friends have boyfriends younger.a lot.I feel that if roles were reversed people would be more understanding

 
Old 07-17-2019, 10:55 PM
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We work together.five month he was out of the country....and we have plans to go see my family this year...all my three friends have boyfriends younger.a lot.I feel that if roles were reversed people would be more understanding
Ask him why he STILL wants to keep you a secret if he's truly serious about you.
 
Old 07-17-2019, 10:56 PM
 
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Any of you dating a much younger man or am i in the wrong forum ?
 
Old 07-17-2019, 10:59 PM
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Any of you dating a much younger man or am i in the wrong forum ?
My answers would STILL be the same.

You're just NOT getting it. It's not just about the age gap, it's the fact that after all this time, he's STILL keeping you a secret. THAT should bother you.
 
Old 07-17-2019, 11:00 PM
 
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One time when in our vacation we stopped by some of his family friends and his moms friend was disrespectful.Asking how old i am .what am i doing with this kid.its unusual and asked me of his mom knows and what is she thinking about us
 
Old 07-17-2019, 11:03 PM
 
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I really did not care about being official to be honest...maybe i start to care ?
 
Old 07-17-2019, 11:03 PM
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One time when in our vacation we stopped by some of his family friends and his moms friend was disrespectful.Asking how old i am .what am i doing with this kid.its unusual and asked me of his mom knows and what is she thinking about us
What was your man's response to this?
 
Old 07-17-2019, 11:10 PM
 
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He was not in the room at that moment.I told him and he was upset.That was when we first started to date.I was upset too...and we both agreed to keep it private...maybe its time to talk about it again ?
 
Old 07-17-2019, 11:10 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Any of you dating a much younger man or am i in the wrong forum ?
You aren’t in the wrong forum. You just don’t like the answers.

I’m dating a younger man but he’s not 22.

Enjoy what y’all have now but don’t expect it to last.
 
Old 07-17-2019, 11:11 PM
 
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We work together.five month he was out of the country....and we have plans to go see my family this year...all my three friends have boyfriends younger.a lot.I feel that if roles were reversed people would be more understanding
Twenty-one is practically a kid, if it's a guy or a girl so I'm feeling people would also not be understanding the other way around. It has more to do with keeping you a casual secret after ten months than his age, but his age explains why. Guys are still in the frat house mentality at 21 or 22.
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