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Old Today, 06:55 AM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston/Tricity
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His rule was not to date anyone at work.But he is dating me...

when he got back first night to town where did he go ? To my place...yes.
Sure, a better alternative than go back to his parents home. AND he could do things that his parents probably wouldn't approve.

He is NOT dating you. You are CONVENIENT, for right now.
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Old Today, 06:59 AM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston/Tricity
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We did not know our age until we booked plane tickets.It was 3 months after we started dating
HAHAHA... and YOU believe that he thought you are, what... 25? Lol!
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Old Today, 06:59 AM
 
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Why u guys so negative ? My friend dated her co worker for 3 years and got married.No one new.Hey its a call center.We are like 200 in that dept
 
Old Today, 07:15 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Why would he break up with me ? Because he sees someone better looking or younger ? Is that ??
He will break up with you because there will be someone who is not you.
 
Old Today, 07:22 AM
 
Location: Florida
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I can understand keeping it private at work. That's not the place for personal stuff.
You did say, didn't you, that among your and his friends (and families) that it's not a secret?
 
Old Today, 07:24 AM
 
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So lets start with saying i have been seeing for the past 10 month my co-worker who is 17 years younger than me...we have fantastic memories of several trips we took together me and him alone and he says he loves me...he is 22 and i am 39....we are not official and i see him hanging out with women at work...he wants us to stay private at work and not talking at work...i dont know how to feell about it and couple of his female friends his age give me dirty looks and yes probably crush on him...is there any hope for us ?
You're almost 40 and you can't see what's happening here?
 
Old Today, 07:27 AM
 
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We are not a secret between friends.Let him hang out then.He had lots of female friends and still comes to me.
 
Old Today, 07:29 AM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston/Tricity
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So lets start with saying i have been seeing for the past 10 month my co-worker who is 17 years younger than me...we have fantastic memories of several trips we took together me and him alone and he says he loves me...he is 22 and i am 39....we are not official and i see him hanging out with women at work...he wants us to stay private at work and not talking at work...i dont know how to feell about it and couple of his female friends his age give me dirty looks and yes probably crush on him...is there any hope for us ?

Well, you wanted to know, and the answer is NO.

However, would you please answer those questions?

He still lives at home - what do HIS parents think of you? Are they happy? Approved this "relationship"?

Do YOU have any family? What do they think about your toy-boy?

What are his plans? Marriage? Family? Kids?

What is your background? Ever married? kids?

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We are not a secret between friends.Let him hang out then.He had lots of female friends and still comes to me.
The question is... how much longer? Till he gets tired of all the secrecy? Till he meets a girl his age, falls in love and they get married and have kids? Are you sure he isn't already seeing other girls?
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Old Today, 07:34 AM
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Location: Pacific Northwest
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We did not know our age until we booked plane tickets.It was 3 months after we started dating
C'mon now... he KNEW you were older than him. Most "almost 40" year old people do not look like they're 20-22. Now, he might not have cared about the age gap, but he definitely knew there was one... and a significant one at that.
 
Old Today, 07:38 AM
Status: "Mr. C's ❤️" (set 6 days ago)
 
Location: Pacific Northwest
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We are not a secret between friends.Let him hang out then.He had lots of female friends and still comes to me.
That's not entirely true, because based on your earlier post, one of his mom's friends made a derogatory comment about you two together, and THAT'S when you decided to make it "private". So it's certainly not ALL family and friends as you've been trying to imply in this thread.

Let's keep it real here.
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