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Old Today, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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On whos dime darlin?
You read my mind.

 
Old Today, 02:41 PM
 
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Uh oh...sounds like he wants to keep you as his sex partner only.
 
Old Today, 03:08 PM
 
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We did not know our age until we booked plane tickets.It was 3 months after we started dating
I'm still wondering how you would plan on going on a trip and buy airline tickets with some guy who's age you don't even know...I think you knew his age. When someone is 20 you would at least want to make sure they're not 17...unless that wouldn't matter either.
 
Old Today, 03:40 PM
 
Location: New to Bay Area
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Twenty-one is practically a kid, if it's a guy or a girl so I'm feeling people would also not be understanding the other way around. It has more to do with keeping you a casual secret after ten months than his age, but his age explains why. Guys are still in the frat house mentality at 21 or 22.
Nope...that's why it *would be* better if it was reversed.......women mature faster than men. A 22 yr old female is more mature than a 22 yr. old guy. A N D....men just don't usually accept an older woman as easily.....at least for a relationship, maybe as a fling. There is more of a *sexual compatibility* match between a younger woman & an older man......maturity level too.
 
Old Today, 04:02 PM
 
Location: PA
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Ok, as a guy who had a year long relationship at 53 with a 23 year old, i feel qualified to give input on this. I had fun. We got along well and it worked. She did not keep me, the older man a secret. Men didn't say much, women looked diagusted and made rude comments. When she wanted to move in, i said no....that was the end. Never spoke to me again. I was thinking of her future at the time. If I had it to do over, i would have said yes.

Use your head and you will be ok. Think of the long term. I Personally would have a problem being a secret. One way to find out what your deal is, tell him you want to tell people at work or you want to quit seeing each other because you don't want to be his dirty little secret. If he says no, you have your answer. Good luck.
 
Old Today, 04:15 PM
 
Location: New to Bay Area
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Ok, as a guy who had a year long relationship at 53 with a 23 year old, i feel qualified to give input on this. I had fun. We got along well and it worked. She did not keep me, the older man a secret. Men didn't say much, women looked diagusted and made rude comments. When she wanted to move in, i said no....that was the end. Never spoke to me again. I was thinking of her future at the time. If I had it to do over, i would have said yes.

Use your head and you will be ok. Think of the long term. I Personally would have a problem being a secret. One way to find out what your deal is, tell him you want to tell people at work or you want to quit seeing each other because you don't want to be his dirty little secret. If he says no, you have your answer. Good luck.
Is being with a 23 yr old....when you were 53....using your head, tho? I can totally see 10 or 15 yrs...but 30? No...just no.
 
Old Today, 04:31 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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All I'm going to say is....for someone who is about to be 40, you sure are naive.
 
Old Today, 06:20 PM
 
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Well...to be honest i did not look at anything more than physically.He wants to do things with me that dont involve sex.He ll change my oil.repair my car.help me when i need.Anytime.I want more sex
 
Old Today, 06:26 PM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston/Tricity
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Hmmm... Interesting. Guys at this age are horny, always, but he doesn't want much sex?
Maybe he is getting it somewhere else?
Maybe you are not that great looking as you think you are...
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Old Today, 06:38 PM
 
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He gives me plenty.Thats not what i meant
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