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Old 07-18-2019, 11:20 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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So what if it isn't 'forever'? How many enjoyable relationships are?
As long as OP is realistic about the probable fact that is not a 'forever' thing, why shouldn't they enjoy what they do have for as long as it lasts?
What about it Blondie? Is "for now" acceptable to you ? If not, then the ones discouraging you are more than likely right. Not necessarily, but more likely
She is not realistic. He wants to bone and pursue a music career which sounds about right for a kid. She wants marriage and children, with a boy who just wants to party and have a regular place to put his penis in. She is convenient because he is gone a lot, partying with others and most girls his age would probably cause drama and get too clingy while OP is "understanding."

 
Old 07-18-2019, 12:47 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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OP, enjoy this for what it is. A fling.

Do I think age differences in relationships can work? Sure. But he isn't even acting like you are in a relationship. Don't be delusional in thinking that this is more than a sexual thing and a sharing of fun times.
 
Old 07-18-2019, 01:09 PM
 
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But how bout 40 year old men marrying 22 old women ??
 
Old 07-18-2019, 01:11 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Three times divorced and now got herself a toy-boy, and thinks it will last.... lol

I am still waiting for answers to the questions on my last post.
 
Old 07-18-2019, 01:12 PM
 
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She is not realistic. He wants to bone and pursue a music career which sounds about right for a kid. She wants marriage and children, with a boy who just wants to party and have a regular place to put his penis in. She is convenient because he is gone a lot, partying with others and most girls his age would probably cause drama and get too clingy while OP is "understanding."
Yes.i told him.i dont want kids.not now.most girls cry over him post on his wall that they cannt live without him.I never done that to him.never caused any drama.And previous long distance girl dumped him while he was on vacation with me.( i did not know about it )...
 
Old 07-18-2019, 01:15 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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But how bout 40 year old men marrying 22 old women ??
They marry them for different reasons. Most are established with money. They don't work in call center. Those girls are "trophy" they need when they reach or past midlife crisis.
 
Old 07-18-2019, 01:20 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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But how bout 40 year old men marrying 22 old women ??
It happens a lot and older women marry younger men too. So what?

HE isn't indicating that YOU are more to him than a sexual fling. This has been pointed out to you quite a few times, yet you are choosing to ignore it.
 
Old 07-18-2019, 01:23 PM
 
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How bout we plan to live together.
 
Old 07-18-2019, 01:27 PM
 
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One of my friends is 60 and lives with a 33 years old that was a model...they on down low too.He likes her just won't commit
 
Old 07-18-2019, 01:37 PM
 
Location: Florida
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How bout we plan to live together.
On whos dime darlin?
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