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Old 07-19-2019, 10:57 AM
 
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Kind of and idea I had from another thread (the loner one) In your opinions, tell me what makes a man a loser and what makes a woman a loser?

 
Old 07-19-2019, 11:47 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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For me, two things come to mind:

Laziness
Closed mind / judgemental

It really doesn't matter the gender.
 
Old 07-19-2019, 12:19 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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For me, two things come to mind:

Laziness
Closed mind / judgemental

It really doesn't matter the gender.
In this vein, I'd say people with personality disorders. No matter how "successful" they may claim to be (narcissists, for ex.), upon closer scrutiny, the picture behind the bravado shows a very different reality, in many cases. They're losers trying to cover up for their poor decision-making, failed relationships on either a romantic or family or friendship level, perhaps a tendency to self-sabotage they may not be aware of, and other issues.

Being judgmental can contribute to all of that; they tend to write people off for frivolous reasons, who would be in an influential position to help them professionally. Judgmentalism and arrogance can undermine a career, or limit its success, and may turn off friends or loved ones.
 
Old 07-19-2019, 12:19 PM
 
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Kind of and idea I had from another thread (the loner one) In your opinions, tell me what makes a man a loser and what makes a woman a loser?
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Old 07-19-2019, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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This has nothing to do with relationships.
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