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View Poll Results: Which describes best what you are looking for in a mate?
Option 1 2 7.41%
Option 2 15 55.56%
Option 3 1 3.70%
Option 4 9 33.33%
Voters: 27. You may not vote on this poll

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Old Yesterday, 12:33 PM
 
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So, anonymous poll. Answer honestly.

I'm curious as to what people think about this.

Which if the following describes BEST what you are looking for in a mate. You can only pick one.

1) The best looking and most successful (however you define either). Brad Pitt, Prince William, Tom Brady, Elon Musk comes up to you tmrw and wants to marry you. Or Beyonce, Jennifer Garner, Alex Morgan, Cindy Crawford. Doesn't matter, whatever your taste is. They're hot and they're rich and they like you. And let's just say, they're nice and honest, and trustworthy.

2) Looking for a best friend that matches me closest to every level. This one is self explanatory. Like your best friend (or what you would imagine a best friend to be) but with boobs ... or a penis. Looks and income will be variable. But again, let's just they're nice and honest. Unless you are mean and dishonest. Then they'll match that.

3) Just rock solid practical partner for a family. You want either a husband or wife who is going to provide what you need to raise kids. Income commensurate with what you would expect. They'll perform their task as a mate and parent admirably and get along with your family.

4) Person who gets you running on a pure emotional level. We've all been there. Hard to describe, but person you're obsessed with for whatever reason, they get your engine running. You'll have that sexual chemistry for the rest of your life. Screw friendship, you can go to the salon with the gals.

Only pick one...

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Old Yesterday, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Arlington, VA and Washington, DC
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Number 4 and they can’t want kids or a ring.
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Old Yesterday, 01:01 PM
 
Location: Boulder, CO
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Option 1, I guess.


Don't be hatin' on me !
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Old Yesterday, 01:08 PM
 
Location: Colorado
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#2.

The person that I actually found and am with, is a blend of 2 & (most of the time) 4. But 4 cannot be the priority, in my experience that's the guy that I fall for hard and fast and he flakes out. Those are fun but they never last. That's why if I can have only one of these, it's definitely #2.
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Old Yesterday, 02:34 PM
 
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Boobs got me to pick number 2.
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Old Yesterday, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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I've been looking for an option 2 and 4 combo forever. If I'm forced to pick, I'll pick option 2 every time because I've learned my lessons.
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Old Yesterday, 05:03 PM
 
Location: Denver CO
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A roommate who has sex with me. Which choice is that?

Probably #2 of that includes a comparable sex drive.
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Old Yesterday, 05:16 PM
 
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I can’t vote. All these options are equally unappealing.

‘If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.’
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Old Yesterday, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Iowa
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Option 3. 1 and 4 are unlikely to last, and I already have friends.

My answer to the question in the thread title (not the four descriptions in the first post) would be Proverbs 31:10-31.
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Old Yesterday, 07:20 PM
 
Location: singapore
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I choose 4
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