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Old 07-21-2019, 12:39 PM
 
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I dont think they mean that type of drama. They are talking about drama connected to their relationship which deals with previous exes or game playing. No one can control life drama which is something I experience last summer when I was sick and have to live in the hospital for 4 weeks
It's not obvious what it means really. Hence why it's not a good thing to write on a dating profile.
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Old 07-21-2019, 12:41 PM
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What many people call "game playing" is a joke and an inaccurate representation of what is actually going on. A situation that someone doesn't like, doesn't mean the other person is playing games.
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Old 07-21-2019, 12:42 PM
 
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It's not obvious what it means really. Hence why it's not a good thing to write on a dating profile.
Well I would hope they are not talking about Unemployment, Medical, and Financial drama lol
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Old 07-21-2019, 06:15 PM
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Yessssssss. I'm convinced that there is a universe rule that whatever you say you don't want, the universe brings exactly that to you. Because you are focusing on that. Just yesterday I reactivated my dating profile (I do that when I'm trying to muster up the will power to stay no contact with my ex)
I'm pretty sure that having an ex waiting in the wings who may end up back in the picture when your will power wavers would be considered to be drama by many.
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Old 07-21-2019, 06:21 PM
 
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The conversation would be like this:

No drama? What? No broadway shows? Can't cry if my dog dies? No drama, because you're the drama queen? If I pick tacos when you want Italian, is that drama?

A profile it just to give you a general idea if you might get on with someone.
This is what I was wondering, too. Why such a fixation on "no drama"? Because the writers are control freaks? lol. What personality flaws are they hiding, and attributing to drama on their dates' part?
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Old 07-21-2019, 06:23 PM
 
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I'm pretty sure that having an ex waiting in the wings who may end up back in the picture when your will power wavers would be considered to be drama by many.

I'm in no contact with him. What else do you want me to do?

Be alone and take time to heal? I've done that before, for a year and half, and nothing changed. I always have some boy in my head since I was 13 years old. At all times, and he doesn't get replaced in my thoughts until I find a new one, but once I find a new one, POOF, the old one is gone out of my head. Just like that.. and I'm into the new one. That's just how I am.
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Old 07-21-2019, 06:25 PM
 
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I suspect that the people that cause drama are unable to recognize it in themselves. Saying no drama is, imho, a waste of time.
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Old 07-21-2019, 07:27 PM
 
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This is what I was wondering, too. Why such a fixation on "no drama"? Because the writers are control freaks? lol. What personality flaws are they hiding, and attributing to drama on their dates' part?
Yep! Those are the drama-causers I’ve met. Just want to do dumb stuff, get away with things, and not deal with consequences. Instead if the reaction is: “You did what?!” The person reacting is “full of drama”. Otherwise known as gas-lighting.
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Old 07-21-2019, 09:13 PM
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This is what I was wondering, too. Why such a fixation on "no drama"? Because the writers are control freaks? lol. What personality flaws are they hiding, and attributing to drama on their dates' part?
The woman ending the relationship could be considered "creating drama". But it's not.
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Old 07-21-2019, 09:20 PM
 
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I don’t know about men but usually any woman I know who I’ve heard say they don’t want drama are the ones who always looks for it and have it in relationships lol
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I agree. They only want the drama THEY create though.
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