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Old 07-22-2019, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Florida
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You say he doesn't like you because you're an atheist or is it a bit of an AHole?
Throwing a pie at somebody?? Really??
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Old 07-22-2019, 12:43 PM
 
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Um, throwing a pie at him isn't the way to handle it.

I find some details of this story hard to believe.

Granted, the dad is very rude. Where was the uncle during these altercations, especially the mealtime ones?

P.S. "...doing what Jesus would do"? Laughable. Jesus wouldn't be rude to someone quietly minding their own business.

Has your gf ever talked to her dad about his behavior? Does her mom tolerate this extreme rudeness?
My girlfriend has tried to talk to him, but he's very stubborn when it comes to his beliefs. And her mom has told him to calm down and leave me alone before, but that obviously hasn't panned out so well.
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Old 07-22-2019, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Herndon, VA
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Correct. I got my license back at the end of June.
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Old 07-22-2019, 01:21 PM
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Location: Texas
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How old are you?

No adult I know spends that much time with his girlfriend's parents.

Stop doing it.

If you both of you are over 18 you don't have to be around her dad.

And a relationship between a religious conservative and an atheist is doomed to failure most of the time.
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Old 07-22-2019, 01:49 PM
 
Location: on the wind
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He was rude and so were you. You assaulted him like a child. No one here's winning any awards. Ever wonder how much more he's going to take from you?
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Old 07-22-2019, 01:53 PM
 
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OP, you snapped and threw food at him in his own house?? LoL that was ballsy... dumb... but ballsy. Being that the altercation occured in his home, he could have thrown "something" back at you that you wouldn't get up from ;-) IF you still wanna date this woman and vice versa... DON'T go to his house anytime soon.
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Old 07-22-2019, 01:54 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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My girlfriend has tried to talk to him, but he's very stubborn when it comes to his beliefs. And her mom has told him to calm down and leave me alone before, but that obviously hasn't panned out so well.
THis is your girlfriend's family, so she needs to have your back when dealing with them and let him know that his behavior is not acceptable. Other than that, you're dating your girlfriend, not her father. If he's going to be somewhere, then you aren't.

But based on previous posts and statements like this:

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The next day, he suddenly barges into the room that me and my girlfriend were staying in and he starts yelling at me to pick up my clothes and stop leaving them all over the floor. I told him that he's not even paying for this house, so he has no right to be saying this. I then argued that it's my room and I can do whatever I want in it. I even said to him "I could take a dump in my hand and smear it all over the walls and it'd be fine since it's MY room."
I don't think you're as innocent as you playing yourself off. You were a guest in someone else's family home, it's not your room and you should be on you best behavior--keeping the space tidy, being respectful to your hosts, etc. Did you write an apology and/or send a thank you gift to the Aunt and Uncle who hosted you?

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Old 07-22-2019, 01:57 PM
 
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Why are you so unstable? You push people's face in the snow and throw pies when you're angry. Sounds like you should be under supervision.
The OP seems to have a host of problems, the least of which are his religious beliefs. I can see why the girlfriend’s father does not approve. Neither the OP or the father are acting appropriately, however.
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Old 07-22-2019, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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Do everyone involved a favor and stop dating her. This is a recipe for continued disaster.
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Old 07-22-2019, 03:45 PM
 
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Have you ever considered therapy?
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