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Old Yesterday, 06:11 PM
 
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So I never dated before until I met this guy online and we started to date about two months, I really wanted to know is it normal for a guy not call you or text you for few hours because before he either call me or texts me right away. Is it normal that he only response to some message and not all? Is he not interesting in me no more? When we hangout every weekend, he all sweet and funny, but when we not together its different?Am I overthinking?
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Old Yesterday, 06:15 PM
 
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It's normal.
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Old Yesterday, 06:16 PM
 
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"...is it normal for a guy not call you..."
back in the day, yes.
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Old Yesterday, 06:21 PM
 
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thanks for the response, and when you call him and he doesn't response but text later that he is tired and watching movies, does that mean he wanted space since he came home from a hectic job and wanted to relax?
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Old Yesterday, 06:26 PM
 
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Why aren't you asking him these questions?

You've been dating 2 months.
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Old Yesterday, 06:29 PM
 
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Why aren't you asking him these questions?

You've been dating 2 months.
I did ask him and he response was why I'm so worried and I'm tired since I work a long shift Monday to friday. Am I being too insecured about it?
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Old Yesterday, 06:34 PM
 
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Are you sending him a bunch of text messages at once? If so, stop doing that. Especially if you aren't talking about anything in particular. He told you his reasons, you either have to trust him...or don't. It sounds like your insecurities are not warranted.
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Old Yesterday, 06:42 PM
 
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It sounds like your insecurities are not warranted.
I don't know. His behavior changed and now he doesn't want to talk to her at all on weeknights.

OP, to me it sounds like something is up. If everything is still normal on the weekends, he may be with someone else during the week. He was never too tired in the past, right?
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Old Yesterday, 06:45 PM
 
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Are you sending him a bunch of text messages at once? If so, stop doing that. Especially if you aren't talking about anything in particular. He told you his reasons, you either have to trust him...or don't. It sounds like your insecurities are not warranted.
no not that I remember unless I'm making him upset and I don't like the silent treatment if he is. I do trust him and I don't want to be like his ex-girlfriend who has insecurities.
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Old Yesterday, 06:50 PM
 
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I don't know. His behavior changed and now he doesn't want to talk to her at all on weeknights.

OP, to me it sounds like something is up. If everything is still normal on the weekends, he may be with someone else during the week. He was never too tired in the past, right?
yeah so far everything seems normal on the weekends when we are together, but when we are not it's different. He told me before that he tired of his job because it's hectic.
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