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Old 07-25-2019, 07:49 PM
 
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Because you AREN'T HAVING SEX ANYMORE. You're only masturbating.

You said you stopped having sex at night because it kept you awake. Nighttime is the only time she can have sex with you.




You're being dense.
Oh but the insomnia was keeping me from having sex in the evening, which is why I masturbate in the morning, cause if I do it in the morning, I won't have insomnia at night near as bad then. But because of work schedules, she is unavailable to have sex in the morning though.

I work at 6 and she works at eight. So she is not going to want to get up early to have sex with me I don't think. Should I ask her if she wants to, in order for us to have sex more?

 
Old 07-25-2019, 07:52 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Oh but the insomnia was keeping me from having sex in the evening, which is why I masturbate in the morning, cause if I do it in the morning, I won't have insomnia at night near as bad then. But because of work schedules, she is unavailable to have sex in the morning though.

I work at 6 and she works at eight. So she is not going to want to get up early to have sex with me I don't think. Should I ask her if she wants to, in order for us to have sex more?
Well, how else will you have sex with her?

Honestly, this girl deserves a medal for staying with you this long and helping you deal with your issues. Give her some consideration.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 08:15 PM
 
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I think it was Woody Allen who once said "I'm the best I ever had."
 
Old 07-25-2019, 08:17 PM
 
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Well the thing is, is that when I am rushing in the morning, if I got her place to have sex, I am worried I might forget something for work, or loose track of time and be late.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 08:20 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Well the thing is, is that when I am rushing in the morning, if I got her place to have sex, I am worried I might forget something for work, or loose track of time and be late.
Obviously this relationship isn't going to work.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 08:21 PM
 
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Well I guess I was just hoping that weekends when we had more time away from work, would be enough for her, but is it too much to ask, and I should be having sex with her most weekdays too, even if there is less time?
 
Old 07-25-2019, 08:22 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Well I guess I was just hoping that weekends when we had more time away from work, would be enough for her, but is it too much to ask, and I should be having sex with her most weekdays too, even if there is less time?
Apparently it is not enough for her.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 08:35 PM
 
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Oh but the insomnia was keeping me from having sex in the evening, which is why I masturbate in the morning, cause if I do it in the morning, I won't have insomnia at night near as bad then. But because of work schedules, she is unavailable to have sex in the morning though.

I work at 6 and she works at eight. So she is not going to want to get up early to have sex with me I don't think.
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Well the thing is, is that when I am rushing in the morning, if I got her place to have sex, I am worried I might forget something for work, or loose track of time and be late.
OP, whether you realize it or not, you're looking for reasons to not have sex with your girlfriend.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 08:38 PM
 
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Yeaaahhh...I'm just seeing a bunch of excuses. OP, if you don't want to sleep with your gf, you need to go ahead and admit it. Acknowledge it and do what you need to do.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 08:40 PM
 
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Oh I want to sleep with her, I just avoid it in the evenings to keep from having insomnia. We even tried again recently in an evening to see if anything changed, but still couldn't sleep at all, as a result. So I'm just doing it to sleep, it has nothing to do with her.
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