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Old 07-25-2019, 08:44 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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OP, we get it BUT what are doing to actively solve the issue besides just reiterating what it is over and over again?

 
Old 07-25-2019, 08:48 PM
 
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Well since it has been causing me insomnia in the evenings, I have been having sex with her in afternoons on the days we have off together, which is the weekends.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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OP, again, like all the others, this is an issue for your DOCTOR.

You should be under a physician's care, and that physician is who should be advising you on possible solutions for your insomnia so that you don't choose cures that cause a permanent wedge between you and this woman who has decided she loves you.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 09:01 PM
 
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Okay thanks. I'll see the doctor about it.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 09:18 PM
 
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Originally Posted by SoCal_Native View Post
I think it was Woody Allen who once said "I'm the best I ever had."

"Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love." That's the topical Woody Allen quote that I know of, I haven't heard the one you posted.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 09:19 PM
 
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I was having insomnia problems and the insomnia I noticed was actually much worse if I have sex in the evnening, so I stopped doing it and it's been better since. I asked about that in another thread, here:

Is it normal for sex to cause insomnia?

It's related to this current issue, because my gf asked me how often I masturbate just in casual conversation and I said everyday usually, once.

She said when, and I said in the morning when I get up before I go to work, cause if I do it after work, it causes me to have insomnia then late in the day.

So she said "so you find time to masturbate, but not have sex with me", to which I replied well the only time we have to do is in the evenings cause of your work schedules, and I don't want to be up all night and tired for work the next day if I do, especially since I am still trying to catch up on sleep.

So she started crying and is now distant from me. But just because I masturbate every morning, has nothing to do with me not wanting her. Did she overreact, or was I being insensitive?
Hmm I would have thought that with the release of hormones during coitus one would sleep better afterward.

Are you in a relationship with ari?

Boyfriend turning down sex
 
Old 07-25-2019, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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Give her sex till she starts complaining about your sex frive. Then see what happens.
 
Old 07-25-2019, 09:39 PM
 
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Hmm I would have thought that with the release of hormones during coitus one would sleep better afterward.

Are you in a relationship with ari?

Boyfriend turning down sex
Oh I don't know. During masturbation and orgasm I get a blood rush, and that blood rush keeps me away for quite a few hours it seems.
 
Old 07-26-2019, 05:42 AM
 
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Whether you rub your arm or another part of your body is none of her business.

I'd never have that conversation again so your relationship will remain stable
Itís her business because heís doing it instead of having sex with her.
 
Old 07-26-2019, 05:46 AM
 
Location: Atlanta
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Seems like an easy fix to me. Wake her up every morning for sex instead of masturbating..
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