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Old 07-26-2019, 06:03 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Seems like an easy fix to me. Wake her up every morning for sex instead of masturbating..
They donít live together.

 
Old 07-26-2019, 06:25 AM
 
Location: Central New Jersey
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You live with a woman and find it necessary to rub one out?
 
Old 07-26-2019, 06:29 AM
 
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You’re basically telling her you don’t want to have sex with her and you’d rather just beat off. And her expected reaction perplexes you so much that you came to the internet for answers? Lol oof

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Old 07-26-2019, 06:30 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You live with a woman and find it necessary to rub one out?
They donít live together.
 
Old 07-26-2019, 08:17 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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They donít live together.
And they must not ever spend the night, which would make morning sex easier.
 
Old 07-26-2019, 08:42 AM
 
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And they must not ever spend the night, which would make morning sex easier.
I think she snores and the OP can't deal with that.
 
Old 07-26-2019, 09:54 AM
 
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I was having insomnia problems and the insomnia I noticed was actually much worse if I have sex in the evnening, so I stopped doing it and it's been better since. I asked about that in another thread, here:

Is it normal for sex to cause insomnia?

It's related to this current issue, because my gf asked me how often I masturbate just in casual conversation and I said everyday usually, once.

She said when, and I said in the morning when I get up before I go to work, cause if I do it after work, it causes me to have insomnia then late in the day.

So she said "so you find time to masturbate, but not have sex with me", to which I replied well the only time we have to do is in the evenings cause of your work schedules, and I don't want to be up all night and tired for work the next day if I do, especially since I am still trying to catch up on sleep.

So she started crying and is now distant from me. But just because I masturbate every morning, has nothing to do with me not wanting her. Did she overreact, or was I being insensitive?
She's not upset because you masturbate, she's upset because you masturbate instead of having sex with her.
 
Old 07-26-2019, 09:56 AM
 
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Whether you rub your arm or another part of your body is none of her business.

I'd never have that conversation again so your relationship will remain stable
It's interfering with her sex life, which makes it her business.
 
Old 07-26-2019, 09:57 AM
 
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Well the thing is, is that when I am rushing in the morning, if I got her place to have sex, I am worried I might forget something for work, or loose track of time and be late.
OK, so when is a good time for you? Not in the evening, not in the morning, what does that leave?
 
Old 07-26-2019, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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Whether you rub your arm or another part of your body is none of her business.
I'm female and any woman that complains her husband/BF masturbates is one worth dumping. How insane, how pathetic, how controlling and how stupid. No matter what she says, you ain't gonna stop and why should you? And why should she stop if you catch her doing it? What is this, the Middle Ages?
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