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See what you get for talking about it with her?
Don't talk about it with your partner. Don't talk about previous partners, either. Just don't! Decline. Smile, but decline.
Because this very act of daily masterbation is the main factor in HER not getting her needs met. She is second hand news...pun intended.
Openly discussing it is above board verses being elusive and deceptive.
And living at home !!!! The moniker is correct an iron PONY
He is autistic, give him a break. He has a full time job and a girlfriend, things a lot of people even without a disability don’t have. He’s doing fine.
OP I think you should look into why sex gives you insomnia. If anything an orgasm usually acts as a sleeping pill. Does sex cause you anxiety that then results in too much thinking and then inability to fall asleep?
Keep a bottle of melatonin (natural sleep aid) next to the bed. Take care of her, then pop a pill and get some sleep. I had the same problem of sex keeping me awake the rest of the night. I was told about melatonin and it did the job!
I don’t think he and his gf have a bad relationship. They’ve been together a long time now after all. And she has disability issues as well. I think they are navigating fairly well considering.
OP, again, like all the others, this is an issue for your DOCTOR.
You should be under a physician's care, and that physician is who should be advising you on possible solutions for your insomnia so that you don't choose cures that cause a permanent wedge between you and this woman who has decided she loves you.
This thread is now closed. It has been cleaned up of inappropriate, rude and trolling posts. Thank you, those who posted compassionate comments and sound advice for the OP.
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