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Old Yesterday, 12:28 PM
 
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Dude. This is... beautiful. Thank you very much for sharing this story. Not all meets are like this, but there ARE ones like this, and it is exactly them that makes worthy living.

Hey thanks man. Guys in her circle would ask her out but she chose me. A beautiful experience.

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I have odd sense this might exactly what is happening to me right now... But I don't want to (sorry for bad english ) put a curse on that opportunity

Heheheh your English is fine unlike mine . Going through a similar experience? That's great! Hope everything goes well mate!

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Anyway, thank you very much! Really... heartwarming
Thank you for reading it. Hope other guys can read it and not give up on trying. Cheers!
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Old Yesterday, 12:34 PM
 
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Right? It reeks of superficiality. Great. You (general) look like a male IG model or “Chad,” as disgruntled dudes would say. What else is there? It says absolutely nothing of anything else or substance beyond what everyone can see or glean from a three minute conversation. And if one is doing it just as a means of attaining “impressive” qualities, they have confidence and self-worth issues to work out. But that’s just me. I’m not of the looksmaxing and “must reach high-earner status” for the express purpose of acquiring an object, er, woman.
Yep. Treat women like human beings for a start (rather than trophies or sex objects) and you'll be several steps ahead of some of the other men out there. No need to be particularly impressive.
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Old Yesterday, 12:35 PM
 
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Hello,

let there be little brainstorm:

Imagine situation you are a grown adult person and you meet somebody who is impressive to you...

...That person is giving you inspiration, motivation, some strengths sense that life is suddenly much more fun and worthy of living...

But suddenly you feel your own weaknesses, your imperfections and you start to be concerned about them... Because that person is simply so strong, stronger than you. More... majestic.

You wanna change it. Right now you ate shaking squirrel and you wanna turn into sturdy oak.

If you get my drift...

OK, let us have some fun. Let's see what the reactions gonna be

(and yeah, this is a real life problem for me. No fantasy )

That's easy.



Do not treat them as if they were fertility goddesses. Treat them like ordinary people with whom you want to have a conversation.



Women want to be adored, but they despise being worshiped.
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Old Yesterday, 12:36 PM
 
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That's easy.



Do not treat them as if they were fertility goddesses. Treat them like ordinary people with whom you want to have a conversation.



Women want to be adored, but they despise being worshiped.
Oh Hells No. I don't think you mean that the way I take it though. Pet thing of mine because my Dad was highly religious. Adoration is for god blah blah. Sorry. How about cherished? I like that word better. Not that you have to impress me with words.
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Old Yesterday, 12:36 PM
 
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Yep. Treat women like human beings for a start (rather than trophies or sex objects) and you'll be several steps ahead of some of the other men out there. No need to be particularly impressive.
Very important.
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Old Yesterday, 12:38 PM
 
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Oh Hells No. I don't think you mean that the way I take it though. Pet thing of mine because my Dad was highly religious. Adoration is for god blah blah. Sorry. How about cherished? I like that word better. Not that you have to impress me with words.
I'd like to be adored by someone. I think it's a good word
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Old Yesterday, 12:39 PM
 
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That's easy.



Do not treat them as if they were fertility goddesses. Treat them like ordinary people with whom you want to have a conversation.



Women want to be adored, but they despise being worshiped.
So you're saying women don't want to deal with guys who act like they've never seen a woman before?

Oh, wow.
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Old Yesterday, 12:42 PM
 
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Oh Hells No. I don't think you mean that the way I take it though. Pet thing of mine because my Dad was highly religious. Adoration is for god blah blah. Sorry. How about cherished? I like that word better. Not that you have to impress me with words.
It's very easy on the internet especially these days to get tripped up on a word. We've all done that. We see a word and we go, uh...
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Old Yesterday, 12:43 PM
 
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Oh Hells No. I don't think you mean that the way I take it though. Pet thing of mine because my Dad was highly religious. Adoration is for god blah blah. Sorry. How about cherished? I like that word better. Not that you have to impress me with words.



I'm a person of faith. I think anyone who gets their nose out of joint on something that petty needs to take a chill pill in a hurry.
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Old Yesterday, 12:44 PM
 
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I'd like to be adored by someone. I think it's a good word
I realized as soon as I posted the Hells No that no one would have any idea why I disliked it. I think you should go for the being adored thing. You deserve it.
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