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Old 08-05-2019, 05:48 PM
 
Location: new to the BA & l o v e it
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How does that work? I don't understand how paying someone to have sex with you bolsters self esteem. The woman is not wanting to have sex with you but is doing it only because you're paying her. She wouldn't do it otherwise. Lol. It's not a compliment that a prostitute sleeps with you.
ita...it would worsen self esteem.....not make it better.....but he is already doing that by thinking he has to pay someone......
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Old 08-05-2019, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Crook County, Illinois
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How does that work? I don't understand how paying someone to have sex with you bolsters self esteem. The woman is not wanting to have sex with you but is doing it only because you're paying her. She wouldn't do it otherwise. Lol. It's not a compliment that a prostitute sleeps with you.
Well, duh! But it's only the rational mind that knows. The lizard brain can't tell the difference. It gets hit with sex molecules (oxytocin and something else) just the same. And it gives a man the exact same "freshly copulated" vibe, which gives him social proofing and makes him attractive to women.
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Old 08-05-2019, 05:54 PM
 
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... Iím a family oriented kind of man, and am not looking purely for sex. In fact, Iím hoping that this method will allow me to reverse the selection process and cherry pick a good woman who might be wife material. When I say ďget anythingĒ I meant, I wonít find a woman if I have to go about it the normal way. I wasnít referring to sex.
There are many Third World women who would rather live in the U.S. and do not expect ROMANCE. Should be plenty of dating services to import a wife. It sounds like that might suit OP more than paying an escort-type arrangement.
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Old 08-05-2019, 05:56 PM
 
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Now that you mention it, going to a prostitute might not be the worst idea either. A trip to the Cadillac Ranch (is that a thing?) or something.
I think it's the Mustang Ranch in Nevada. I'm pretty sure Cadillac Ranch is an area in Texas with Cadillacs half-buried and painted all sorts of things. (See Under: Bruce Springsteen song)
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Old 08-05-2019, 05:57 PM
 
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Well, duh! But it's only the rational mind that knows. The lizard brain can't tell the difference. It gets hit with sex molecules (oxytocin and something else) just the same. And it gives a man the exact same "freshly copulated" vibe, which gives him social proofing and makes him attractive to women.
If that is the case, I do not understand the male psyche. Lol. If it were me I'd be weirded out and sort of ashamed that I'd just paid someone to pretend to like me. I'm pretty sure that would be a big old dampener on all the happy chemicals.
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Old 08-05-2019, 06:01 PM
 
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Well, duh! But it's only the rational mind that knows. The lizard brain can't tell the difference. It gets hit with sex molecules (oxytocin and something else) just the same. And it gives a man the exact same "freshly copulated" vibe, which gives him social proofing and makes him attractive to women.
I would pick true lust any day........& I don't understand why the O.P. wouldn't...........the physical relationship wouldn't be the same & both of their minds would know it...............
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Old 08-05-2019, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Crook County, Illinois
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I would pick true lust any day........& I don't understand why the O.P. wouldn't...........the physical relationship wouldn't be the same & both of their minds would know it...............
As a woman (if your username is what it sounds like), you can find true lust any day. Most men aren't so lucky.
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Old 08-05-2019, 06:17 PM
 
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As a woman (if your username is what it sounds like), you can find true lust any day. Most men aren't so lucky.
We are not the only ones....men can find it too.........lust & love!!!
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Old 08-05-2019, 06:20 PM
 
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We are not the only ones....men can find it too.........lust & love!!!
I was talking to my buddy the other day. Recently divorced, scared to enter the dating pool. He was talking about being worried. I was like, um, you are sleeping with me and one other woman. I don't think you are going to have a problem. lol
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Old 08-05-2019, 06:24 PM
 
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We are not the only ones....men can find it too.........lust & love!!!
But not meeeeee waaahhh. And the connection between that sentiment and the fact that they are not part of the group that CAN is forever lost on them no matter what you do.
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